What do you do if your ex still loves you but you have a new relationship?

@zhawee (873)
Philippines
August 17, 2011 7:05pm CST
Many of us not easy to forget our past relationship even we have new relationship right now. What do you do if your ex will come back again and he/she still love you but in your heart she/he still love them too. the problems is you have a new relationship. what do you do now.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
I will be confused of that and if i still love my ex, I guess that's stupid! i will talk to my heart not to love the ex, I will choose my new boyfriend. If the case is if I don't love my present boyfriend then i will break up with him, talk to him clearly then maybe we could start (my ex) all over again. But that rarely happens to me for i f i gave up on a relationship my feelings for hi will be gone too.
@Doritoes (84)
• United States
18 Aug 11
That's a tough situation. When my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, I still had feelings for him. During that time I also had a great guy next to me. I was very happy with him but I wasn't sure if I could start a new relationship yet because I knew I still wanted to be with my ex. I told him that I wasn't ready but really I still had hopes that my ex would come back for me because I kind of knew he still loved me. As time goes I began falling for the guy more and more and that's when my ex realizes he still wanted to be with me but it was too late. I'm glad I didn't start a new relationship until I was over my ex because someone that just isn't fair to the new guy.
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
18 Aug 11
First of all I would look at my current relationship. Is it something you can see yourself in for a long time. Next I would look at why you broke up with your ex in the first place I mean he is your ex and you moved on for a reason. If you have greater feelings for your ex then make sure you let your current one know and not lead him on any more but remember if the relationship with your ex did not work out there is a chance it might not work again.
• United States
18 Aug 11
Firstly it would be hard to take some guesses unless I am actually in the situation. But for the sake of theorizing I would have to say that I would have to consider the person I am currently with. How much feelings and or if I am in love with the person that I was currently with. Also I do have to look back as to why I was no longer with the ex. It has been my experiences with exes that I would not want to return to any, so that being said I would take a really hard look as to why we were broken up to begin with. Therefore, I would more then likely not return with the ex.