Mistakes
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
August 18, 2011 6:29am CST
Others mistakes we seem much harder to forgive than ours. For all I broke we apologize, we explain, we have reasons. However, as we could go so deep into the minds and hearts of others, that you can understand the facts that we can not forgive?
Make mistakes and get on with life. We shake the shame, guilt, helplessness, and we promise that next time we will not stop at the same place, same way. We try to learn from what we experienced and the pain to change a bit extra wisdom.
But first of all, we must learn to forgive ourselves for what's wrong and thus learn to forgive mistakes and those who accompany us through life in an exercise of generosity to ourselves, first .
There are people who never make mistakes? There are perfect parents, teachers who are truly role models for those who follow them, doctors, managers, employers who do not fail in the decisions they take? Probably not. Probably each of us has the right to cheat or fail, at least occasionally. And the right to be forgiven for proper that. It is important to you to fix what you broke, or at least forget and move on. To new mistakes that make you stronger and wiser, and closer to the brink of perfection ...
4 responses
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
19 Aug 11
Mistakes are something that are unfortunate but in many ways, they allow us to grow. We become stronger, more solid people when we learn from our mistakes. For those who have never made mistakes, they have never been able to cope with the consequences. Of course, those who have never made mistakes, is more like those who have yet to make a mistake. It could be coming all too soon.
I think that in the end, we can get a lot out of what we learn from the mistakes that we make. In the end, there will come a time where we must move on. Life does in fact go on. We grow from it and life can be something that is grand. We are not going to have perfect lives but in many ways, the imperfection makes us better people. Of course, once is a mistake, twice might be forgivable but more times making the mistake means we have not learned a thing.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
21 Aug 11
Mistakes, which we are and will remain mistakes. No matter from whom or why, no matter how justified or unjustified are. They can not be repaired. Opinions can be compensated, but the mistakes remain mistakes. We just try to not make mistakes on. But you know anyway to make them ... And I'll repeat the old ones ... We begin to wonder what we can do. And concludes that the best thinking about something else, because that's the case. Even if you do not learn anything wrong at the time, we definitely have the opportunity to figure out later in life. And we realize that the main reason for the mistakes that we made was not inattention, but our beliefs were at the time.
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@purplealabaster (22085)
• United States
19 Aug 11
Depending upon what the mistake is and how often the person has committed this mistake, I tend to forgive others more easily than I can forgive myself. I guess that maybe I hold myself to a higher standard than I hold others, perhaps because I expect myself to know better and cannot be sure that others do know better. Of course, if a person keeps making the same or similar mistakes on a fairly regular basis, then my tolerance and forgiveness will eventually fall and it will be more difficult for me to forgive.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
21 Aug 11
I think that any of us, we happened to do something wrong, knowing from the beginning that is not good .... I wonder why? sometimes the "adrenaline" moment, they say. Sometimes I blame, myself, why am i so critical to me. It seems that i'm not the only one....
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@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
every person have a mistake in life..Where mistake came from or started? Some mistake is from our self. we are super expectation to our self, we cannot think our decision a million times before we make act decision. Some are mistake we are so much trust in other person, as you are older they many eyes are looking to you especially the eyes of the children they look at you as a model. So be careful to your mistake.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
21 Aug 11
A fundamental process of the people to learn, mistakes are imperfections of human nature but also a benefit at the same time, like today be without mistakes? How would life be without mistakes? It is worth living? How did you learn to appreciate it's really a no lose by making a mistake? mistakes define us, teach us and make us stronger. One door closes, another one is openness.
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@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
18 Aug 11
None of us is perfect and probably never be,there isn't any single person who doesn't mistakes in life,and we should we remember that whenever we tend to criticize harshly people who made mistakes;we shouldn't forget the words 'tolerance' and 'understanding' when we judge other people's faults,because one day it will be our turn to make mistakes and be judged by others.Let's always keep that in mind and try to forgive others at least partially;I'm sure the kindness and power of forgiveness we show to others will come back to us one day.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
21 Aug 11
Indeed, no one is perfect, we are all sorted, mistakes, now depends on the severity and circumstances.
Who does not make mistakes in life ...
It is true that there are several kinds of mistakes, large and small mistakes, mistakes can be forgiven or unforgivable mistakes. These mistakes often have several causes such as carelessness, ignorance, convenience, etc.. But if we wrong, you should learn something from the mistakes we make, not to repeat the same mistake again. Learning from mistakes is a wise thing, is a successful path to a successful life.
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