Why are blood relatives to most people is so important?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
August 18, 2011 10:38am CST
I personally can not understand - it's pure coincidence, in which family I was born. I love but do not automatically all family members. This has nothing to do with family cohesion, a family unit is important. But that does not mean yet that my friends (who I have chosen voluntarily), I may not be as important or more important, and that my feelings toward them can not be stronger. Many people talk so, but in the end would always prefer the family. Why? I know people who say they would leave their partner for their parents - then you need my opinion, not to marry. . Why do so many people depending on their bond of kinship? Is the uncertainty? If you ask them, always comes a vague "I can not say why, it just is."
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5 responses
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 11
Friendships go to pieces,
can terminate the relationship is not one.
Furthermore, there is usually longer with relatives
friends than with other friends.
I know the guys hold all the past 20 years, there may
no friend to keep up.
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
Hi my friend,
Binding affinity alone is not what it should terminate there, what could go on the rocks? Of course there are related, but does this say something about the quality of the relationship? Just like the years that we have spent together - if you love someone, the years are worth much, but I love someone but not just because I've known him for 20 years.
Nice day
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 11
Perhaps it is because they have something in common with their kindred, even if it's only the gene. there is a connection that they have not been selected and is still there - many consider it special and why so much cling to their relatives. yet, there are known, one wishes it warn his kindred, and is it related to the other side, one wishes, it is not known warning times.
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@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 11
For family and blood relatives, I always set this to my mother and grandmother in my ears:
"Blood is thicker than water" --- you remember that!
Since I always in my family as a "black sheep" is true, I ask myself often why I just do not make the cut .... but then I do the above mentioned rate falls again .... and I can not help it
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
"Blood is thicker than water"
When we need to choose between a family and a neighbor, we would definitely choose our family. We are closer to our family 'cause the blood that flows thru our veins are the same. We can trust them right away 'cause they are our family, they already know each other since they were kids unlike for other people that some are strangers and some also came from a family with bad reputation.
For choosing a partner, best take a family advise 'cause they know better than you. Better than you because we can't deny the fact that once we were in love, we are blind of everything. The problem is the more your family treats your boyfriend badly the more you are in love with him.
Always remember, that family is always there no matter what.
Have a wonderful day gen!
