Are you an expert?
By Toni
@toniganzon (77064)
Philippines
August 18, 2011 11:01pm CST
I'm not drop dead gorgeous but i got my own qualities to attract men. I don't do it intentionally even when i was single. I didn't flirt with anybody when i was single. I considered men as better friends than women because i can talk things to them other than fashion style and men! I am not into gossips so i like having conversations with men!
I have never dared to lure men into bed as i was too conservative and i'm married now. I have never seduced but some men have been seduced for some reason. Some said i'm an expert, but i don't see myself like that.
4 responses
@CTHanum (8233)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 11
That means you are an attractive lady~(^^)
I am not an expert and I am just like other normal and ordinary girl out there.I am not sure about it seems it is what people see from us so it's quite hard to judge our ownself.About topic between girls...yes, I admit that I hate talking about fashions and trends but that is because I am not an expert in that category and interest to that topic.So I can't help that~(^^)
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Well thank you or maybe I'm just a witch who can fake my looks and bewitched everyone!
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
19 Aug 11
HI Toni!
You see your qualities are more important than physical beauty or say outer beauty (am not saying that you are not beautiful). In the long run, what counts is our qualities and positive attitude. You have the capability of winning your friends' hearts and you know how to be nice friend to them. You are honest and sincere in your efforts and you are transparent in your approach and these qualities of yours makes you a wonderful friend/human being. 

You see your qualities are more important than physical beauty or say outer beauty (am not saying that you are not beautiful). In the long run, what counts is our qualities and positive attitude. You have the capability of winning your friends' hearts and you know how to be nice friend to them. You are honest and sincere in your efforts and you are transparent in your approach and these qualities of yours makes you a wonderful friend/human being. 
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 11
.........there is no point holding back compliments or showing miser attitude in throwing compliments.
You deserve all the compliments, mark my words.
You deserve all the compliments, mark my words.@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
And you are one person who knows not to hold back compliments! Thanks Dee!

@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
19 Aug 11
I believe we are all born with unique talents and special qualities that we just have. Then it is up to each one of us to use them with good intention for an honest purpose. some use the smart intellect in the wrong way. But most people I hope use their talents and unique gifts in for good purpose. That's my theories. We're all experts!
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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19 Aug 11
My partner says I’m like that and so do all my friends from before I even met my partner. They say I have this way of just getting people hooked. I have NEVER in my whole life, had a male friend, who didn’t at some stage try it on with me, nor have i ever had any gay female friends, who didn’t try it on with me.. and to make matters even worse, I’ve had female friends, who were straight, and THEY tried it on with me.. everyone says I just have something about me that makes people just fall for me..
My partner has something about her too, not the way I do, people don’t constantly run after her or “fall” for her, the way they do with me lol, and my partner is really shy and would just walk away from the attention, wheras I could play on it and have a joke with it. But my partners friends all told me that before she met me, girls were always coming up to her and chatting her up, and obviously my partner being really shy didn’t sort of flirt back, and the girls would walk away knowing she wasn’t interested. Lol I think that’s adorable.. my partner think its cute that i’m the same, always getting chatted up, but she hates the fact that people don’t ever take the hint and walk away from me, they become obsessed.
You seem to be a very alluring person Toni, from your pics, you’re a stunner! And you’re just so happy and sunny and positive!! That’s such an attractive feature!
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Nice to hear your story.
Oh yeah i got people stunned, they could hardly say anything in front of me, especially men when we were in college!
I intimidated them rather than lured them into bed! But my husband wasn't intimidated one bit, he got me saying i do! And he's 3 years younger than me!!!
Oh yeah i got people stunned, they could hardly say anything in front of me, especially men when we were in college!
I intimidated them rather than lured them into bed! But my husband wasn't intimidated one bit, he got me saying i do! And he's 3 years younger than me!!!@chicksdigscars (5483)
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22 Aug 11
i intimidate people too! you know i think thats why men/women are so hooked on us? because they are intimidated lmao.. they want what they can't have and like a challange.
ohhh.. you have a toyboy eh? haha! .. my partner is 2 and a half years younger than me too! lol.. we're like their sugar mama's! haha!






