Can you be forever alive in long-distance relationship, happy together?

Indonesia
August 20, 2011 4:26pm CST
So never shared home, will also probably not enough time to children, no friends in common, as it were always two singles in two distant cities, and only a few hours in the year a few? Can that work? I say no. What do you mean?
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@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
I agree with you. In the beginning it might be bearable even if the partner has to make due Auslang shops or so. But longer? I would never start something. And you even know whether their partner is faithful? I must always have somebody around me.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
This can go well in any case. It is up to the two people, as they put their lifestyles and what they wish for a partnership. Not all people want to dog-house-garden. There are many facets of life cycles and lifestyles. Everyone should implement its own, without being questioned by others.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
i guess it will as long as you two remained honest and love each other no matter what. as long as you both have plans to be one in the future. but if this relationship is just for fun then i guess it is always just for fun. every relationship has its own battle long distance or always together has its own ups and down. i married my ife and i dont have friends... so that makes us no common friends at all. har har har. my wife has a friend who has a relationship with a person who leaves far too. and as far as i can remember he is even a soldier. she met him at Bahrain. now they are miles apart but very much inlove. they are in their 3rd year already and of course planning to get married when the perfect time comes. it will work out but of course these people needs to work hard to make things work.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 11
I can hardly imagine. Certainly a long distance relationship is not doomed to fail from the outset, but people continue to develop and then sooner or later, remember the day when the people concerned that the change in the size of the similarities are so diminished that a separation is inevitable.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
It can decide only those directly affected. For me it would by no means a solution, I'm happy with my wife and inevitable separations we have both always limited to the shortest possible time. I would be missing something, I need someone next to me.
• Indonesia
22 Aug 11
It is going well! A very close friend is happy with her husband of 23 years in a long distance relationship, they have five children between the ages of 11-22 years and the kids are not sad or feel it is unfair! So far everything is going very well! Another friend has with her ??boyfriend for almost seven years, a long distance relationship. The can with the children while still present, although they love everything about children, but that is still determined! Both couples have partners in another country. So therefore I think it can definitely work. It depends entirely on the people to their environment and whether they have a strong personality! This is not to be underestimated I think.
• Indonesia
20 Aug 11
same as you...it absolutely not work how will you know each other if you not have a quality time together??
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
Being in a long distance relationship, strength comes from the hope that one day in the future, they will no longer be apart. Being far from each other is intended to be just temporary as they both prepare themselves for the lifetime commitment. But being far from each other all their lives, and just a few hours a year? I think it will not work. Who can live her live forever missing the one she loves? In that situation, love will not be enough, if we love someone, we want to spend time with him or her. We want to make memories together. My mom and dad are also somehow in this situation. My dad is working abroad since I was like 10. He has been going abroad for more than 15 years and he comes home every year for a month only. But that does not mean he will work forever abroad. Now that I am married, I told him to stop working and just come home to be with my mom. He told me he is planning to come home for good in a year or two when he finishes restoring our house... It is not easy, but with that hope that one day soon they will no longer be far away... they just become stronger.
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
The key to a long distance relationship I think is effort and the determination to make the relationship work. The only issue for these types of relationships is the physical absence of the person. You can't compare the warmth and the connection when you are with the person that you love physically. If you can overcome this, I think it will work.