Is there any hope? Do you have experience with it?
By kendedes2011
@kendedes2011 (2712)
Indonesia
August 20, 2011 8:53pm CST
Two months ago I met a man. We were then entertained by three weeks daily e-mail and it has voted all. We then met - and falls. I was initially unsure whether he is serious about it but he assures me. Then I let myself to him and it was just beautiful. We got along great and it was a perfect match. Because of work, etc. then we could not see a couple of days. When we then met the next time he said that his feelings would not be enough for a relationship and he is currently due to time problems and could not get involved with someone. I'm really baffled because you love it and not just because it is a bit difficult, all feelings are gone, right? Now I want to know what to do. Report? Not register? ? Wait I find it so difficult because I feel that there was a deep connection between us and I am not willing to admit it, he throws away everything. Do you think there is still hope that if there is more time with him again (in terms of job in 2 weeks) he will get in? I miss him very much.
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@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
So I'm a different opinion as my predecessor.
My psychologist always says .... when a relationship breaks up in the first few months (up to one year) has this to do with fear. I just think that has got cold feet. Put on your not suppose it's because of your person. If you let him alone, he can let go, he might think again about the rest about it. He can not but if you are after him inveigh .... real or mentally.
What is life to a can not lose.
Trust me .... and listen to the inside. Whether he comes back or not you already know.
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 11
You write it yourself, "it was just beautiful"
When he said, "that his feelings are sufficient for a relationship", leaving little room for reasonable expectations, if you want to continue to indulge in fantasies, you wonder sometimes why you spend your life on hold.
The "he is currently due to time problems and could not engage with anyone," but he already knew, as he assured you, "he said seriously."
You want to know now, what you shall do?
Look closely, recognize how it is run and learn how the adventure is beautiful looking. Here it is up to you to learn how you can protect yourself against such a type in the future.
Sure I said, I do not believe that you shall hide you now, but learn to go on to people, talk to them, they get to know you too and of course, pay attention to your feelings, offer fabulous and you do not clip in so a flash of light.
So do not report, do not wait, but live.
Deep connection between two human beings are valuable, but if one looks at this not enough for a relationship, it is of little use if the other is desperately trying to hold it further.
You want what he throws away, behind him march self, force it to him again until he is so annoying that he hurt you even more.
Why you should do you mean?
"I miss him very much." You write, that's a good indication of what ails you, what you need and what you do well. Use the search and then, in yourself and in others not, give, grant to you the good.
But make no happy memories from the drama by you make yourself dependent on a man who wants no relationship with you.





