Do you still practice arrange marriage?

Philippines
August 21, 2011 4:24am CST
I have noticed this practice in the affluent families so that their fortunes would be just between families of the same strata.Some families practice this arrangement between their children when they are still newly born.They just wanted the future of their children in a safe side without realizing the bad effect it might make in the near future.How about you my friends?Is it still practice in your family?
1 response
• India
21 Aug 11
It sure is pretty common in India. Though the number is decreasing but eventually it is still followed big time. Most of my friends I know got arranged. Am getting married next month and it is not arranged. :) There are few reasons why parents prefer arranged. Cause they are scared that their child might marry someone outside their caste/creed. Might want to marry someone who is not from a strong financial background as theirs. Also they want them to marry in a family equal to or superior to their family status in the society. This insecurity is a major reason. Another being Dowry. As you said my friend, there could be a lot of bad effects to that. The most important backbone of a marriage is the compatibility between the two partners. Which might be a bit difficult in arrange marriages. Cause you got hardly few weeks before you get married. It is almost impossible to know someone in few weeks. Times are changing but arrange sure exists. And am sure its gonna exist for many many years :) Thank you few reading. Cheers :)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
That is quite a remarkable discovery in my knowing that you still practice that in your country.Here in the Philippines,others still practice it but in the essence that arranged marriages is a waste of time and money,they just leave their children to whom they like to marry as long as they could become progressive and live in harmony to each other.My other friends still practice it due to the fact that they wanted financial freedom to their children and that security is guarrantied.Their only problem is that they are not compatible in many things so are their ways of lifestyles are very difficult to become compatible.They must learn how to manage their affair and deslikes so that that marriage would never be a failure.
• India
22 Aug 11
True. Times are sure changing. People are preferring Love marriages. But it will take time :) It's not gonna happen no sooner. Thanks for a nice conversation. Good luck :)
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• Philippines
27 Aug 11
I am very interested in knowing more of your arrange marriage.I will just search in the net so that I can learn more things not just your styles in arrange marriage but also other things in your culture as a civilized country.Even if it is still practice by a few people in my country,marrying that scenario is not popular here as of this generation.I am so delighted of what I have learn from you my friend.Enjoy your participation here.