why some parents a doctorate for her children?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
August 23, 2011 10:28pm CST
why some parents a doctorate for her children more important than a healthy child to have? Why are some parents so obsessed with ambition and put their children under pressure to perform so that they do not even realize how much their children are suffering and sick.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
hi, those kind of parents who are perfectionist in terms of ambition still exist,they will pressure their child to reach the ambition they want,and they never feel sometimes that they children experiencing difficulty.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
Several reasons: - In an effort that should bring the child into something and it better and / or easier to have than themselves, cover and many lose sight of the facts - They want their own wishes and dreams come true in their children. - You have a corresponding social status and it is for them no question that their children do justice. No matter what reason. If it is a doctrine of parents simple, it is not right and it often reaches the opposite of what they really want.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
Because we are a society in which it is defined by power and possessions. It is more important than a great car or a great title to have a good and healthy person to BE. The parents think it m.E. not even angry, they are very easy to run from these false goals.
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
In addition, Prestige is unfortunately overrated ... and so as a title is more valuable than health. A title is partly as a quality class, sadly, even in the labor market. Sure he is both an education verification, depending on which division and area of ??interest, but that should then decide the child anyway.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
for some people is the only status that matters in life, without regard for losses themselves on the grave stone is carved to be admired in the hope
@stary1 (6611)
• United States
24 Aug 11
There are so many reasons parents pressure their children. It depends on the parent. Some genuinely just want what is best for their children and for them to have a better life than they did. Yet here are also many sad stories of parents pressuring kids into careers the children didn’t want but went through with them just to please the parents. I would hope most parents would remember they had their life and while it is good to guide their children it is their children’s life not theirs.