Is it worse to lose any loved one, or never had to have a complete family?

I think it is worse never to have had a complete family. It's terrible when someone close needs to go from the large family forever. But the wonderful memories of this one person that could have been, it may not be the person experienced with anyone else has had! Had they not had these memories and experiences - we'd be better? Had we the same people? No, because we would be missing a part. When a person goes from us, we realize how much he has given us but the memories and experiences can take us no one we carry in our hearts and we have not had it, we were not the ones we have today.

If you had never had a big family, not the missing one. I grew up with only one parent and have never missed anything. I think it's harder to lose so many loved ones. Only harder it will be when we lose loved ones from a small family.

What was not, can not you mourn. However, we were able to enjoy many relatives, at least for a while. For I am in the same situation as you. And I personally am happy to remember my deceased family members. People who never had a large family have no such memories! So I think the situation worse than your girlfriend yours!