what would you do if you find your partner cheat for second time
By reinykwan
@reinykwan (350)
Indonesia
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Aug 11
A second time would be an absolute no, no for me. See after the first I would not be able to accept it as a mistake. I am a very loyal person and there is no such thing in my view as someone doing this to me. So after the first time, sadly I have to let go. This will assure me that there would not be a second time. I will never do a first, so I expect not to have a first done to me. 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 Aug 11
If I cheated on a partner I do not think they would be happy about it. I can understand you wanting to give the chances as it really is what works for you and or others.
Yes no one is perfect but cheating for me is a choice and not something one does because of mistakes. If someone loves me how is it possible they would hurt me? See I would never hurt someone and definitely deserve the same respect. But then this is me.
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 11
really? I always give second even third chance, whatever the problem, I think nobody is perfect..
@totor_53 (223)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
I could not blame you if you've been such a fool to forgive such an idiot for love really does blind you. All i could say that since your partner had shown that he really can't live without having concubine, better to leave him though it would hurt but at least you are saving your heart from the many possible heartbreaks that he/she might inflict once you forgive him/her and finds out that your partner still keeps on cheating on you. However, this is just a suggestion the final vote always goes to you but please do heed my advice.
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 11
thanks for your advise dear friend, sometimes I affraid to hurt..
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
13 Sep 11
Hi, reinykwan. Welcome to myLot!
I would leave him for good. "Once a cheater, always a cheater!" They say that this statement isn't true, but now it is in this situation though. There is just no excuse for a partner to just cheat on their partner. It is just inexcusable.
I would leave him for good. "Once a cheater, always a cheater!" They say that this statement isn't true, but now it is in this situation though. There is just no excuse for a partner to just cheat on their partner. It is just inexcusable.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
Second time, and same reason?
There is a saying that ,once a cheater will always be a cheater.
And, after giving him a second chance- he did same mistake(cheating) again.
I guess it's time to give him a better lesson.
I will forgive him, but, I don't want to live with him anymore (that's a good deal)
have a great weekend 
jaiho®
jaiho®
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
hi, forgiveness remains to be done, but obviously has closed a second chance.
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 11
if you forgive someone it should be automatically give him/her a second chance?
@CSR2007 (63)
•
26 Aug 11
It all depends what the reason he cheat me. If he cheat me with good motivation, I will grant his words. For example, my husband says,'you look beautiful today.' I will pretend to be happy, though I am not beautiful at all, this I know. such reaction will give both happy, why not do it? But if he has another lover, and still says he loves me one woman for one life, I cannot stand him.
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
yeah sometimes I can't tolerant about any kind of cheat, that's my bad
