kissing on your first date

@acey76 (1276)
Philippines
August 26, 2011 3:50pm CST
What is your view regarding to this, are you against this or its okay for you to kiss your date on your first date?
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14 responses
@SydneyJ (902)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I think it is okay to kiss on a first date but I don't think things should go any farther than that and it shouldn't be the highlight of the date, the main thing should be the bonding you two are able to find together
• United States
23 Oct 18
I think it all depends on the couple. But for me I don't have a problem with a kiss on the first date. A kiss doesn't have to lead to anything else and it can be a way to measure if you have any chemistry or not.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Nov 11
Kissing couple - Did you kiss this way?
Kissing on first date! Well I never did that actually and I don't think I would ever do that. If it is just first date then that means I don't even know that guy that much so why would I kiss the guy I have not really known that much and is not even my boyfriend yet.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
If you are both mature and want to do it then why not? it's just a kiss anyway. Just don't go any more than that.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
I'm not really against it. I have a boyfriend right now for 6 years. I remember that we didn't kiss on our first date. I guess we kissed after the second or third date already. But if the feeling is right and the moment is perfect, the I guess there's nothing wrong about kissing on your first date.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Jan 12
hi, i am not against to that,kissing in the first date,its just a kiss and there's no reason why kissing to be bad in the first date,now a days kissing in public is a little bit normal and it will depend upon the type of person who seen this kind of scene.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
26 Aug 11
I have not "dated" in so many years, so I think I may be slightly outdated in my views on this. I take a modest approach to this. I dont think that you should kiss besides maybe a nice tasteful kiss on the cheek or a simple kiss on the lips if you have already known this person prior to your date. The faster you start kissing the faster you end up further along in your actions. Better to just save those kisses and not just give them away freely leading to maybe the wrong conclusions with your date.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
26 Aug 11
If both sides want it, why not? After all, a simple kiss - on mouth but not necessary french - is or can be a promisse for a even warmer relation later. But I can't stress enough: just if both sides agreed and want .. and do not count first date for one night stand.
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
26 Aug 11
I'm totally ok with that! If you enjoyed your date, I don't see the reason why not to do that, except if you are a really young teenager or something like that.
26 Aug 11
For as long as the kiss is formal then there's nothing wrong with that and for as long as your date is gentleman who will respect you.
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
Why not? If the situation calls it, it would be awkward to just let it pass. If you really like someone, I don't think a kiss would affect that. Even if its only the first date, liking someone would mean that you are looking for something other than a kiss - and that's emotional connection.
@veedee13 (242)
• United States
26 Aug 11
This is just my opinion,i don't want to offend anybody.But i think it shouldn't happen because you are still getting to know the person and for me kissing is unacceptable on the first date.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
26 Aug 11
Hello acey76, I'm not against kissing on the first day although some people are and rather wait until they feel comfortable or feel some type of chemistry with them.
@guegui (17)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Kissing on the first date can go horribly wrong,even if you're skilled at kessing. At least one of you is likely to be nervous at the start of the evening. Eventually you relax and things are great. Until it's time to get out of the car, or be walked to the door, etc -- then the nerves swing back into action as you try to figure out if a kiss appropriate. If you're cool and collected,this many not be an issue. If you're anything less than totally confident,however,it many show in your kiss -- and many people find bad kissing a reason to avoid a second date. ;)