What You Do When You Are Badly Hurt Or Wounded ( OR Scolded ) From Inside ? / myLot

India

August 26, 2011 11:52pm CST

Dear Friends We are living in much hard world , a world which is very tricky and selfish . So getting cheated , facing betray ,discovering lie , even facing abusive language comes into picture in our day to a day life . So what you do when you are harldy scolded ,face a betray or come across abusive language .............?And what is the best way to deal such situation ? Hare Krishna Ganesh

4 responses

IAmMbl

@mabeldaclan (787)

• Philippines

27 Aug 11

I don't like confrontations, being scolded at, or having other people mad at me. So, I usually don't do anything bad to avoid such situations. But, if I won't be able to escape or avoid such situation, I'll just listen to their "advices", "suggestions", and their "harsh words". I will certainly feel hurt after that event, but, it would certainly pass. I'll just wait until I get better. For sure, that won't be long because I can cope up way much faster.

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Ganesh44

@Ganesh44 (5547)

• India

27 Aug 11

so time is great healer even I dont and most dont like conforontation you mean to say let time pass and get calm nice way suggested thanks....... Hare Krishna Ganesh

chiyochan

@chiyosan (30186)

• Philippines

27 Aug 11

everytime, if i feel so hurt, so devasted, and i feel like im being stabbed right through my chest... i would always cry it out... and then along with the endless tears... i would pray and just paray and talk to God... i would ask him to help me out, to pull me out of the situation... i know he will and i have proven each time that he has...

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Daddy Neil

@neildc (17238)

• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines

31 Aug 11

i usually shut my mouth and keep wondering how or where did i get wrong. after the confrontation, i go to mylot and ask for help, suggestions or advises from kind friends here.

lumenmom

@lumenmom (1986)

• United States

29 Aug 11

One thing we should do is not take it personally. A lot of times people treat us badly because they themselves feel bad. People do all kinds of things for so many reasons, and most of the time it has nothing to do with us. Though it is hard to do we should show compassion for those who hurt us because in doing that we become healed.