how do you forget someone you mis?

I recently have gone through a break up and at first I really missed him. I decided to focus my thoughts on other things in my life. First of all if the person is in your past you need to remember why they are in your past. If you are the person that chose to put this person in your past you need to remember the bad and not focus on any of the good. When you think of this person and they were not a good person try to instantly change your thought to something that makes you happy. In doing this you can cut down on the length of time it takes to get over the person and you can think about them less and less. When I left my ex it was very painful, but I know it is better that I am no longer with him and I am actually excited about the next chapter of my life, finally being happy without him!

I take the longing as a great power for me. Then, rather than forget it, I would convert that power into another great job and activities. While doing that another activities, sometimes we can calm down our "raging" heart - and yet make that activities wonderful! Mark Zuckerberg was firstly developing Facebook after he was breaking up with his girlfriend. And now see, how popular Facebook now . Well it is not the only factor, but yet, it is one of the factors, right?

I agree with what you've said and I'm one of those who can't move on easily. I've been with my boyfriend before for almost a year but we broke up and there is always a time that I miss him. Really really miss him but there's nothing I could do. What I did is I spent my time with my friends and family. Go out to shop for clothes and shoes, do everything to look at my best, do things so I would be really busy and because of being busy, I will forget him and as time passes, I realized that I'm not missing him anymore. Anyway I almost forgot. The most important thing that I did is I cried and cried and cried until it hurts no more, until I can no longer feel the pain of missing him. Those are the things that I did and now, I'm happy with my life even if I'm not with him anymore. :D Losing him made me have someone better than him.