Do you miss someone right now? A loved-one who is so dear to you...or....

Philippines
September 1, 2011 2:47am CST
All of us has our share of this aspect. I for one misses my Mom who died August last year and my Twin Angels who died just recently died, just this April of 2012. It's so easy for other people to say to move on and start anew but for me, it never really is. I grew up being so close to my Mom, who has been at the same time my favorite English teacher in school and also my best buddy and best friend so it really is not easy for me to move on without her. To add it up, yes, I miss someone so bad right now - they are me and my hubby's twin angels, Crystal and Sachi who died due to Extreme pre-maturity. Even up to now, I long for that last moment when I held them and saw them open their eyes and smiled. As a Mom who carried them inside my tummy and made them grow and took care of them, it is no way I could just say that I am really able to move on. In some ways, I am still trying but I always miss them everyday of my life. How about you, do you miss someone right now? Someone so dear to you --- that person could be someone who didn't really die, he or she could be someone who was close to you but for some reason or reasons didn't stay longer to be part of your life or could be he or she could be someone so dear to you and left this world already. Share your heart aches... It's always normal to share and cry. It's part of us being humans so please do share your thoughts. Thank you!
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• India
1 Sep 11
Sorry to know about your Mom and Yours' twin angles. But it is the way of life. We are helpless in front of GOD's will. May GOD give you strength to bear all this. I can do nothing to console you but just pray for you. Yes, I really miss my two friends who are not with me as we all move to different places as for our jobs and after marriage. I really missed those days which we spent together.
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• Philippines
21 Mar 12
I just got back to mylotting now and I am deeply touched by your comment. Thank you for the sincere condolence even if we haven't really known each other personally. Really appreciated.
• United States
30 Nov 11
wow that is so sad to hear. :-( i;m sorry about your mother and your twin angels. there is someone i do miss his name is alex i was so in love with this guy and we broke up and now its been three years and i still can't get him out of my mind. :-(
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Sorry to hear that too, my friend...
• United States
20 Oct 11
Yes, I know what you mean. I have two angels in heaven myself. The fiorst is my third daughter's twin sister. The other a baby we lost still born half way through the pregnancy. Both where years ago now and I have had a healthy baby since but I still have times when something happens and I just tear up. I am usually known as being cold hearted so this tends to take people by surprise. I cannot help it though, I have lost loved ones before, cousins as close a siblings, best friends, Aunts/Uncles but this loss this has been just so much harder. Hugs to you and your angels.
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Me too... This is the kind of loss that's just more than a heart-break. I don't know but it's just something that as a Mother, it's something so difficult to explain that it will never ever go away from your heart.