Would this bother you?

My close friend and family alway do that in my apartment,It's OK for me ,I'm glad to see that they can enjoy themselves in my house, And i think you should let it gone,maybe you friend just want to be more closer with you.

Hi, rose1717. I think that you should politely say something, before this goes any further of them doing something that will make you become very angry. I would not tolerate anyone that does not live in my home opening up and looking in my refrigerator at all. That is just rude and impolite of them to do so! I remember once when my mother-in-law was visiting at my home, she wanted to put her plastic drinking bottle in my fridge. She was about to reach for the handle to put it in or take it out herself, but I quickly did it for her. I did not intend to be mean or seem strange. I just felt wary of her just opening up my fridge without asking me to. She was a guest in my home at the time, and I did not appreciate her just going inside of my refrigerator just to get what she desired. Or take out what was hers. People should show a level of respect at all times. Your refrigerator is your own personal property and it should be respected at all times as such too!

This only aggrivates me if I invite a friend over. Family doesn't really bother me because I think that family is welcome to what I have especially if I invite them over. Now if I don't and my family or friends just stop by it highly irritates me if they just start going through what I have. I think now that I have my own child and have a family that just shares all the time that family doing that doesn't bother me. It's like an insult if you're visiting and you don't know where everything you want is. Friends I'll offer and provide what they want. Once they visit often for like a month or two you're considered family and you can get your own stuff.

I do understand about this, some people are too annoying like opening the fridge as if they own the house. It is fine for close friends or family members..but not with people who seldom comes to see and greet "hello". So far I haven't encountered someone like that, all my friends are too polite to asks if they can have some drink or they can put something inside my fridge. Or maybe...me and my friends are like real sisters that is why we feel comfortable with each other already. Maybe you just let it pass and ignore the person not to spoil your day or the event then. have a good day always jaiho®

You can tell them that their acts annoy you but be sure in a subtle way. Why not joke about it to make it lighter? Sometimes the message is clearer when sent through jokes or in a manner not offending.