bf w/college, and work and me with school

United States
September 2, 2011 4:09am CST
i am 18 and so is my bf. i am in night school and he goes to college and works on the weekends. i have no idea how this relationship is goin to work out since he leaves around noon and i go to night school from 5:30-9:30 and dont get home late. i hardly ever see him. since when he leaves i am sleeping and then when he gets done his classes he comes home around 10 and then he goes to bed and/or he does his homework for a bit and then goes to bed. mainly its a hi, bye and an i love you. but we dont do nothing and i hate it. he works on the weekends from 11am-11 at night and then he does some homework and off to bed. we've been going out for 2 years and i feared this for a while. and now thats it come idk what to do. i dont wanna be like hey we dont see much of each other so can we do something cause i dont wanna start an argument. thats one thing i dont wanna do since a couple of weeks ago we had an argument bout it and we were close to breaking. so i dont wanna cause anymore problems then what we already have. i love him to death but its tough. living with him i thought it would be easier but its really not. i see him just not much. i just dont know what to do. can anyone help? i would really appreciate it if i could get some advice.
1 response
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
2 Sep 11
If I had a boyfriend that I didnt see as much because he was going to school and working that much I would actually be happy. I like guys who are busy because I know he has no time for other women because hes to busy with school and work, I dated guys who were weren't so busy they went to school but would go to clubs and flirt with other women every night just be thankful whats going on right now because someday you'll wish the next was so busy but this is my opinion.