How to cure loneliness?

September 3, 2011 12:43am CST
I feel super lonely today. i don't know why.It's just I am so alone and my friends are out,my best friend is on a vacation,my family is having a tour without me and my colleagues are busy with their family. I'm all alone and I don't know what to do. Facebook does not work for me this time. My eyes is not into reading this time. I don't know what to do. Please a little help there guys...thank you!
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15 responses
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Oh, that must be so boring being left alone. If you do have lots of food in the fridge then open your dvd player and see some movie. Or let your lover come over your house. It would be great for the both of you this time!
@kry893 (222)
• Canada
4 Sep 11
Perhaps you can just watch a movie or just dig out a book to read. Or maybe dig out your old things to have a look at, like your school year book. That can bring back some memories and you'll be thinking over some things in the past. Or, you can always go to the library and just look around. There are many books and references to look for in a library.
• China
3 Sep 11
I sometimes feel lonely, too, especially when there is no one with me. At some times, I would find something meaningful to do, or something that would make me calm down. Calligraphy is one of my choices because it really helps to relieve the loneliness. Of course, this may not work for you. But I do hope you can find an appropriate way of freeing yourself from loneliness because long-time loneliness can cause serious consequences. You may feel uncomfortable and uneasy at being in the company of others. Anyway, try to be nice to yourself and make your life colorful. Have a good day!
• United States
3 Sep 11
I'd go for a walk. If not, I'll just stay home, read a book and listen to my podcasts. Podcasts are fun! Look them up. But going for a walk is still the best way. Loneliness at a time like this only means that you have a need to get out of your confines and just go out.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
3 Sep 11
Loneliness is a strange thing. Loneliness is like a pain. I do not wish anyone to feel lonely. only slightly to avoid loneliness is to go out with friends and do not close yourself at home. so go out drinking coffee with friends and talk loneliness will go away. nice day!
• Canada
4 Sep 11
Ha ha, well that stinks. My suggestion is watch some comedy. Find something that can make you laugh. Or play video games. If you noticed my suggestions are perfect for by yourself times. You can laugh by yourself, you can play games by yourself. Many many interesting videos on YouTube to enjoy also, hint hint many online movies too . Good luck!
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
3 Sep 11
I suggest you go out for a walk and see some animals. They might help you feel less lonely. Sometimes when out in the countryside I meet friendly dog walkers. Some dogs are suitable for a bit of fussing. I hope that you meet some nice people for a little chat. Good luck.
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Why don't you go to the mall or watch some movies. You can also watch some TV series I would recommend "How I met your mother". I am sure after 2 episode of the series you'll forget that you are lonely. Maybe you are not really lonely, you are just bored because you got nothing to do and nobody to chat with. If you don't want to stay at home you can always go out. Eat outside today even if it means you are alone. Sometimes it is nice to be by yourself. Take this opportunity to think of different things you wanna do in your life.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
3 Sep 11
try responding back in mylot,u will have a great time ,will forget ur loneli ness and enjoy mylot discussion ,have a nice time .
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
3 Sep 11
You don't like to go out yet you don't like to be lonely? If you will only be in your room/house try to be busy and do some work, clean your room and after a while relax, have a movie marathon and spend your time here in mylot.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Well, you can watch comedy movies- the really good ones that make you laugh, your favorite ones, or even romantic movies.. Or you can just go out and smell the fresh air or do exercise..
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Hi there lonely friend. You know, it's easy for me to cure my loneliness. I do feel the same way especially when I'm all alone, who wouldn't? And so, I tried to find things that will make me busy. I go out of the house because staying makes me more lonely, goes to mall, watch movie, eat my favorite food, play at the arcade, or sing at KTV, or shop clothes and accessories! I find myself really enjoying these things even if I'm alone. Not just that, when I'm on my way home, I'd stop by the DVD stores to buy myself some more movies to watch at home. So, friend, find ways or things that you love to do and I'm sure if you do, you'll realize how wonderful it is even if you're alone because that way, you can do anything you want without interruptions. And to add, visit friends if you have time just to bond with them! God bless!
@shivanisd (387)
• India
3 Sep 11
become best friends with yourself, u wont need anyone else :)
@tong_jd (29)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Get yourself a pint of ice cream or a bar of chocolate or both. That should perk you up, for a short time, that is. Or if that doesn't work for you, try to sleep.
@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
3 Sep 11
Hi there! hope you are doing well. facebook is not the only thing to make you happy not feel lonely. I think you should go out or do something fun or excercise. Watch tv or read a book would probably help. Why not also write a journal if you are lonely every day. I think that would help as well.