Relationship Another Fleeting Thought

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Just read a rather interesting but sad article on the news which made me want to say my mind here. The article relate how a girl actually went through her flight without knowing that her boyfriend had actually choked to death on his meal, until NINE hours later. Shockingly and yet sad but isn't that's how couples are today? First, getting in trouble. The man did not raise the alarm that he is in trouble, he was already choking, getting breathless and even death. But, he did not ask for help and tragically he died. Second, the girl who not only failed to spot the trouble but went on to assume otherwise. I cannot help wondering how she could not spot what was happening and that her boyfriend was actually struggling and nearing death. Now, I may seem insensitive writing this but if we reflect back, I am sure you will be able to see just how similar couples are today when facing crisis in their relationships. Men will be men, as they say - narcissistic, high self ego or whatever that just feel that it is upon them to bear everything on their shoulders even when it meant loosing their lives. Their other half, in their depressed and desperate state starts nothing to come to the aid of their men. To make matters worse starts assuming the wrong way and arriving at all the wrong conclusions. Before anyone realizes it, the entire relationship crumbled to beyond any repair - death. In love, every mote of individualism devours away mutual strength in a relationship. This is decided by freewill - by our choice in life. If you have decided on your partner in life then treat them as the most important aspect of your life. Learn to share - not only the joys but all the more woes life has to encounter. When we try hanging on some false realms, frustrations will build up from unparalleled views that would never meet. Eventually, contempt and conflicts increase and implode unsightly on us. Stop asking what love is, leaning on some hearsay or novel fiction to know what love is or about. I say it is about time we live to learn and walk the talk. Love is not about looking at each other; but looking together at one collective direction. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2033546/Man-chokes-death-flight-meal.html