I'm curious to know, what do other think about cheating!

Nope, cheating will never be okay in my relationship. I will never cheat in my relationship. If I don't love him anymore I will tell him rather than cheat on him and flirt with other guy at the same time. Dating two guys at the same time will be so tired. When you go out with one you might fear that the other guy may see you. You have to lie all the time. Eventually you will lose both when they find out what you have done. Cheating is so mean.

Cheating is never okay. Never want to be with a cheater either, because the same thing will happen to you. That said, there are individuals, who are okay with their significant other being physically involved, not emotionally, with others. So long as there is no secrecy. I was in a relationship with a man who had this sort of open relationship with his ex wife. They are still friends and get along very well, which is good for their children. Their level of honsety and communication baffled me. She was very nice and polite to me, never jelous of my relationship with her kids. Their marriage ended quietly and with mutual respect. He was ten years older than me. Never pushed me to be in that kind of relationship with him. I learned a lot about myself and he opened my eyes to many facets of life that I probably wouldn't have learned on my own for another 15 years. I got a great job offer when I finished my master's 700 miles away. We are still friends. We meet up whenever I am in town. If he is not in a relationship we may be more than friends for a weekend, but it's against my personal beliefs to be with him if he is emotionally involved with someone. I learned that there can be that sort of relationship, but it has to work for both partied involved. It isn't for me, but if it works for them, I've learned that it isn't a bad thing. Just my opinion. fwiw

No. It's dishonest and more hurtful than if you would end the relationship. Cheating is a wimp's game - for those who have no courage to do things the right way.

I think cheating itself is wrong. I've dated someone in the past that cheated...actually found out that he was engaged when i was seeing him. I didnt stay with him...and he's since moved on to marry someone else because his now ex fiancee caught him...Sadly though he still invites other women over to sleep over when shes away. He's tried asking me a few times and ive told him no you're married not a chance. There are points in time where...a marriage is over...and neither is willing to be the first one to end it...and they both end up cheating. They arent in love anymore they're just legally committed.

No its not ever okay, if someone in a relationship doesn't feel like they want to be with the other person they should just leave instead of cheating and hurting feelings.