I come back here and I need to say something

September 7, 2011 7:47am CST
yes! it's almost a year I m away from mylot, now I M back~During these time a lot of things happened. I came back to Northeast China from the south . I choose a new job and have a new bf then break up from him~ a month ago I come across a pretty boy online. He is so handsome and knowledgeable .We two talk and talk .it seems we really like to talk with each other . When I received his message I will smile happily. If without any messages I will think many reasons why he doesn't call me. I m not a little girl. But this feeling make me just like a girl fall in love for the first time. Those days we surfed and left messages including many intimate information on each other's blog .Beacause of him ,I talk with him all night long~Many times he wanted to see the real me. I refused,I just thought I was not that good for him. I m so sad ,but one day ,he disappeared from the internet,left nothing to me. some e pail told me that he had a gf,and his gf know we two had the romantic relationship.so she dumped him .When i got this I felt so bad! For one thing I couldn't forget him ,but I dare not keeping in touch with him. Once I asked him why treating me like that , he told me he was not a good man. when he feel better he would call me. yesterday I really missed him ,so sended a message just with one word goodnight. several minutes later his message was coming ,just the same goodnight.Oh gosh ,what can i do ?who can give me some good advice? ths a lot!Bless U all!!
4 responses
• United States
7 Sep 11
Hello Jessica! Im Jessica!!! Just because he was not a good man to other women. Does not make him a bad man. Everybody makes mistakes. It take a great women to change somebody. you would not even have to try. Just your company, an convo. Can change a man morals. If he really mean that much. Explain it to him, let him know that his ideals, and support really effects you. let him feel that you will support him, mentally too(when ever its needed).
8 Sep 11
Oh,Thank you so much for saying this~~Jessica~ sometimes I m really a coward!!I m afraid everything that could make me fail. He is a good boy that 5 years younger than me . I just think he is so good that i could not have the good chance to have him !!!next year he will go to New jork to study ,I cant go there ,so we even dont live in the same country. Maybe the only thing i can do is forgetting !That 's a quite cruel reality!
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
If you miss someone then go meet them, it's that simple. You don't have to add stuff to that. it's like if you're hungry, then go eat.
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
9 Sep 11
What kind of advice? How to forget him? How to get him to continue chatting with you online, etc? Or what?
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
7 Sep 11
Friend why you not use paragraph. Paragraph is good to understand you discussion.. now you came back but you missed lots of fun here.. ohhh means you missing someone..