Girl Problem, HELPPPPP!

@orang13 (723)
Philippines
September 11, 2011 12:20pm CST
My sister have been crying this for years now. She is just too young, around 16 and she was really having a horrible years facing her big future, physically. Yes, I mean her boobs. She doesn't want it big, she want it become smaller. Is there any way to make it small, any safe way that you can suggest? Maybe an exercise, a pill, a food? I really would want to help her, and this time I am gathering information for her. Please suggest and research too, thanks!
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10 responses
12 Sep 11
hi:) Is it that big? but I thought having a big front is nice, as long as it's not really that gigantic. but if she's fat tell her to lose some weight,that could help, because for what I know front tissue are more of fats. or for the meantime tell her to wear sports bra, coz it's making the front look smaller.
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
its not really that big, but she looks at it that way.
@yfchin83 (127)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 11
Since your sister is a teenager, I believe the size of her boobs was contributed from the change of hormones in her body. You did not mention her height and weight but just emphasize that your sister is not happy with the size of her boobs. Some girls, especially teenagers face problem like difficulty in accepting their body shape or their looks. This is referred to as self image. At this young age, they are afraid to be different from others, the outstanding ones among their friends. It might be possible that your sister is afraid other girls will laugh at her for having big boobs or the guys in her school make fun of her. For now, this might be her dilemma. When she has grown matured enough to understand the change of her body due to hormonal changes, she might welcome the change in the future and accept her natural big boobs!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
For me I don't think so if they have the solution for that case in me just accept the truth of what the Jehovah God created you.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
12 Sep 11
What, out of so many girls out there, millions of them want to get a surgery to make those boobies bigger, so they can attract more people to look at them. And your sister would want to go an opposite way? That is something new. Oh well, don't do anything rush, and go see a specialist on this thing. It would be better to go nature, not those surgery thing.
@pibi713 (187)
• China
12 Sep 11
It bothers women when boobs are too small. However, it bother them as well when boobs are too much big. But your sisiter is 16 years old ,she is still growing. She had better not do anything to her boobs. For a girl 16 is also the end of the growing age, I think her boobs will stop growing soon.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
actually i have a small boobs.. can me and your sister exchange boobs?? hahah just kidding! anyways.. in that problem i can't advise you that much.. i guess having big boobs is good since most of the girls want to have it.. they even enlarge it.. but i think if your sister is really having problems with it .. well you can brainwash her and tell her that having big boobs is not bad at all.. in short make her think positive about having it..
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
12 Sep 11
orang13, I believe your sister will need to learn that there's more in life than what she is seeing in the mirror - herself. First of all, please see your doctor and get to see if your sister is healthy without any abnormalities with her hormones or any adolescent problems. There's nothing better than to have a good start - a clean bill for health. A lot of time, adolescence can be quite scary but let me assure you that such professional advice is necessary especially when it can do some wonders on one's self confidence which is what I am suspecting is lacking with your sister. When that is done, your sister will need to be able to start accepting because that's the first step to adapting. It will need her to see things differently and start living a life that has so much more to offer than looking herself at the mirror and rejecting it. Talk to her or better still encourage her to talk about herself or whatever is on her mind. Or, encourage her to talk to someone close to her especially her family. Let me assure you that it helps.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
This is weird. I mean, does her future really big ? While some girls are having problem with smaller ones and wish to have bigger. Here your sister like it smaller...unless it is too big really. Well, better checked a professional help for this matter not to hurt your sister's health. have a good day jaiho®
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Sep 11
Is your sister still growing? Mostly if girls have their regular period that's over. How tall is she and what is her weight. Just looking at her boobs might give a false idea about the size. I can understand she does not like big ones but the good news might be that most men do like it and women do envy it. No there is no pill or excercise to make it smaller. If she gets pain in her back from it she should go look for help. Otherwise I would suggest to look for some great bra/underwear and clothes so she can give her body a great shape an put accents on where she likes it the most.
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
hey friend, it is normal for a person to grown up and definitely the body would change or developed... as for your case, your sister is lack of realization and awareness. You can help your sister to by convincing her about how life developed in different stages... For better counseling or guidance take the advice from your parents or from mature and experience person.....hope you understand what i mean...