It is right to wait him still......???

Philippines
September 13, 2011 2:39pm CST
I am very thankful to all friends here who gave me advice about how can i movin on,,, and they are really sincere about it,, Most of the advice are coming from their own experienced... Now, that i am in that process .. I have one question although we are not communicating nowadays .... DO i NEED to wait for him..? i still hope and feel his coming back.. Please tell some words for it my dear friends.. Thank you and have a nice day to all..
11 responses
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
hello . .there's no wrong in waiting for him. .but if i were try to forget him because the longer you wait the more pain you feel. . good luck
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hello yes I beleieve in your words...it is really hurt and hard to accept the word "forget" but I must do it. The more I am waiting the more pain struck in my heart... Ok thanks a lot my friend...have a nice day... :)
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
13 Sep 11
It's best to move on and forget it him. Just get him out of your mind he probably doesn't have you on his mind and someone else on his mind.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
yes i will try to do that all those advice and i know that it is for me.. thanks friends and happy to have you here....
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
There was another lotter who had the same experience as you did. couple of them actually, the best advice that i read was from a friend that she mentioned that when they break up with you, they are a "thing iin the past" and should not let it relive. probably because of the memories that ypu have with him that keeps you from moving on. not bad in having in the memories but you have to learn to move on if he has already done it. be strong my friend.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
Yes i will try to do that things and to moving on i think i need to set my mind and set into condition... thanks my friend and i will try to follow all advice.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
hi, you can wait for him but dont expect too much dear,and its good to have hope that he will come back,always think positive,and aside from that did he tell something to you to have wait for him?
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
probably a grace period of 6 months is ok. Not any longer than that. You have to move on.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
yes at least i have still the chance to do that... thank you so much friend
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Sep 11
You should never wait for someone. You have to live and enjoy your life. You have to make yourself happy and be happy with who you are. Only if you can do that you can make someone else happy. If he will come back to you it should be that way (although you can always refuse). After this life experience you might change be stronger and big chance you find out you two don't belong together and you have a way greater match and love with someone else. Give yourself that chance! Start living each day a little bit more. I wish you so much luck and love.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
hi mods, Hoping and waiting is naturally feelings but if you think that hoping and waiting is not worth it and will not happen even it hurts just let go and move on it is not easy but that is the best thing to do hope you will feel fine soon. happy mylotting
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
14 Sep 11
I'm confused that you didn't say your situation completely.So i was wondering that did you guys had a relationship in the past?Or does he know that you have a feeling about him?Just express your love to him and let him know,relationship should be clear and i think he will do something to make it clear.Good luck my friend.
@cow_boy29 (236)
• United States
14 Sep 11
yeah if you like him much why you dont think to waiting for him??? Ask your heart
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I have faced the same situation as you are. I had this love for someone who already belong to someone else. It really hurts. I told myself to wait for him, but as days and months passed by i find myself helpless. Till when should I wait? My heart says to wait but my mind says to stop. I was faced with a dilemma either to wait or not. Now, i realized if we were meant to be then time will come that we will meet again where we are both free. I just have to enjoy my life and do anything, continue living coz life doesnt end there. So whatever you decides its your life, you must also be ready to face every consequences of your actions.
@sideword (40)
14 Sep 11
Just continue your life, don't expect that he will return. Only God knows what will happen. Let go of him and let God leads your life. A relationship is supposed to be happy, and if you're already not happy with it, don't stick with it. Respect yourself and always be open to embrace every opportunity in life. Take care and God bless!