being hard to get or playing hard to get?

He is not playing hard to get because he said what he feels. That's it and please don't get your hopes high. He is clearly afraid of something that happened and don't worry about him, if he values you he would come, now the fear is bigger even before trying so the thing you must think about is: your self. Do you really want to fight for someone you don't even love and that has so much problems? You yourself should play hard to get and meet other guys, this one is way too complicated and too afraid. Maybe he is a coward. Be happy and do the best for you dear.

Hello meek I know its been kinda disturbing but the only solution to get over this is to try to discuss about it with your boy friend.May be he just wanted to think about this.If he make anything clear,it will be very helpful to you.Otherwise you should leave him by yourself.Because if he don't care about you,you have not to be worry for him.

Wow that is is a hard one. I think to me, of what I read above, I think its because of priorities. He said he has his music thing going on, right? I think he wants to practice with his music/band perhaps? But then, he may be playing the hard to get because he is making to much excuses to why he cannot go on to making the next move. If it were a girl doing the same to me, I would tell her what her decision is before anyone gets hurts.

Probably he wants everything to be perfect once he courted you. He just don't want to have any commitment if he's not sure yet. He just want to be sure with his feelings probably. Don't worry, he's just waiting for the perfect moment and time.

I think he is not ready for a commitment for now and so is taking his time maybe the right time will come according to him.So just play it cool but from the look of things he is enjoying your company the reason why you should not be troubled.He seems to fear the unknown that it may end up badly so stick with him and maybe he will see all the good reasons to be with you.

It might just be as he said, he doesn't want to make a move because it might end up badly. This statement says that he might really care about you, courting you might end up losing you in the end and he doesn't want that. I would suggest to just give it time and if that moment where you two becomes a couple comes, no matter how complicated the situation is, if its fate, it will just happen.

i think he has just been taking time to know you better. i think he is also the type of person who don't rush things and i see that as something positive. so don't be too troubled just enjoy your time with him anyway if both of you would get along well and he thinks he's really in to you then that thing would just come. just take things slow. i think he's also taking things slow and trying to make things right. he's avoiding something bad that may happen in your relationship and that i think you should be grateful. maybe he came from a very serious relationship and this time he's not making the same mistake anymore. so just take it easy meek. :)