money in marriage.. relationship

@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
September 16, 2011 5:18am CST
For those in a relationship or married ones can you live without money.. can you have a happy married or relationship if you don't have money.. is money everything... on the other hand if you have money will you be happy in your marriage...
3 people like this
15 responses
• South Korea
16 Sep 11
well money plays a big part in relationship.....actually everything could be fine but if you guys dont have enough money to pay all the bills you need then there comes the stress..lol Me and my hubby knows money is important.. we've been married for almost five years now but were not really planning to make baby now a days..well because we know the financial responsibility we should be prepare off. I think if you guys have money everything will be better..
• South Korea
16 Sep 11
yes and I guess of course everyone of us want to have financial comfort as much as they can...
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
I think a marriage will work out even if a couple has problems with money. They just need to talk about it, talk sincerely with each other and don't fight about small things about money.
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
money is not everything in a relationship, but it is one of the most essential factor in building a family. of course, love, respect and faithfulness are just few very important things you need to give to your partner, but without money, the marriage could be very stressful. if your family is growing, you need to provide for their basic needs, food, shelter, education. so it is very important that you are both financially stable when you already have a family, because it could be a cause of fighting sometimes. as long as we live, we need food to eat, a home for our shelter, and material things that will make us comfortable, we cannot have those things if we don't have money.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Thu money is not everything it is necessary in a marriage life. Once we enter into that stage, we should and must be financially stable as well. there are things that we needed money. How can a couple raise a kid without money and how can they give their kid/s a good future without money.
29 Oct 11
Living lack of money, will make us trouble. I can not imagine, if I get married, and live shortages. During this time, I live quite, not lack, and also not excessive. Lack of money, may make I often quarrel with my husband.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
Money is something that every person needs in order to live comfortably. We use it to buy our needs and to pay our financial obligations. Money is needed for marriage to work well also. If both of you don't have money to buy the necessities, then there will be a problem. It has to be that there should be money to sustain your living.
@pvuppal (137)
• United States
16 Sep 11
You need money in a marriage but just to pay bills and have food and shelter but I dont think it can buy you happiness. Love does because money can't buy you love. And money comes and money goes but not love.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 Sep 11
We can't allow money to rule a relarionship. Money is not what it should be all about. Love and caring and understanding should be what we enter foremost into the relationship. Money does not last while feelings and emotions do.
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
17 Sep 11
Things would be easier if we were not stressing over money all of the time. Would money make me love my husband more? no. Would it allow me to see him more? probably. We are both working full time, i also tutor two nights a week for extra cash, and my husband works weekends until the snow falls at a campground. That leaves Monday and Wednesday nights as the only time we really get to see eachother. Many times he is not getting home from the weekend job until I am in bed on Sunday night.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
hello, Honestly, money is everything now except happiness but it can also convert to happiness. right? It is depends on the use. Well, I am in a relationship and I really mean that it is really boring without money in your pocket specially if you wanted to buy something or do something remember everything has a price. right?
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Sep 11
money is not the most important thing in marriage. Money is a transient thing as marriage is for life. marriage is based solely on trust and love a lot of responsibility. marriage is something we should be able to keep for years to show how strong that love and money are not important. nice day!
• India
16 Sep 11
yes money matters in all relationship you only think if you wont have money any 1 can be ready to marry you?ya but money should not come in the relationship so much that love could be invisible the relationship does not say that money should be they but for living...
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
For me, everything in marriage is not all about money although it really matters in a relationship. Money cant buy happiness, maybe sometimes it can buy love. Still, more importantly LOVE should be above MONEY in ones marriage.
@yskaps (233)
• India
16 Sep 11
In my opinion money is not the base of a relation,it is love and trust and it plays most important role in the life.But nowadays money is also coming to that rate, a guy or gal without money is not at all loved by anyone.Its the condition faced by our world.Its because of many reasons mainly the changing culture,now we are living in the world where we cant take our breath without money.For staying, for water, and for each and every thing we are paying...It is also a truth that, without money we cant cook love,care and trust for our meals!!!!
@rosie230 (1696)
16 Sep 11
Money does not make a relationship work, but obviously I guess things would be less stressful if there was no problem with money. To me a relationship is based on trust, love and friendship as well as other things, but money really isn't the base for a good relationship, or to make a relationship work... A couple should work at making a relationship work, and deal with things together :)