How good listener are you?

Well, I'm not really a good listener... because man yimes I'm absent minded... I can only focus 30 minuites I think, whenever someone is speaking in front of me... Betond that I cant absorb what he or she is talking about...

Most of us like to think we are good listeners. I do not know how good I am, but I think the degree varies from one topic to another. Being non-biased does not necessarily make one a good listener. A person can be a good listener while having a strong opinion on certain issues. On the other hand a listener can choose an easy path by being a conformist and becoming popular among speakers.

I was not a good listener in school unless it was something i was intrested in. I have a hard time focusimg on listening to things im not intrested in and it was hard for me to focus on that stuff when in high school and my grades were dropping and i was doing very good and it was so hard for me. In college i did school online as it was easier for me because i was able to read things and not listen to a teacher at all unless i wanted to. It wasnt easy at all listening to someone talk about something i was intrested in or ever going to be intrested in at all.

hi kearkear i think if i not a good listener, cause i won't hear other people secret, even that was my friend. but my friend always talking about anything to me. well , maybe what i do make them think if i was a good listener.