Do you attend any party?Without gift

India
September 17, 2011 11:14pm CST
Hiiiiii fellow mylotters Everyone knows various types of parties are oranised like birthday, marriage, marriage anniversary, office function etc..I also arrange one party that is "Kitchen Party" still no more guest are in my party. I think they dont want to give me gift.. But I think whenever we are going for party then we take a gift for the organizer not necessary gift will be big or costly but at least for their pleasure gift is must and forget to write one rule in my kitchen party no entry without gift.. so share your view you face such situation you attend party but forget bring the gift.
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21 responses
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
For me yes it has a time I would go in party without gift because they are rich and they said even if you don't have gift just attend.
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@vikku2001 (258)
• India
18 Sep 11
Hello fanta I mostly take gifts.But I am never able to choose gifts so I always avoid to buy gift,I just go to shop and buy any show piece and wrap it.But when its mt any close friends birthday or his any other individual party,I don't give him any gift.I just help him in arranging the party.In birthdays, We all friends except him just bring the cake and snacks.I think its more better.Yes we take also a treat after that from him.haha
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• India
18 Sep 11
Hii vikki wooow cake my daughter likes very much so cake is best for my party and join my party with cake we will put on every one chicks and enjoy with cake hahhah...
• India
18 Sep 11
Yes surely I'll do.After all making others happy always makes me happy and I'll also enjoy the party.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I would if I could. The only parties I usually go to are of relatives and very close friends, and they would understand if I didn't have any gift to bring with. If there was a no gift no entry policy, then I would definitely have been in a very few parties.
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• India
18 Sep 11
hiii sweet couple You not attend the party if there is a policy no entry without gift means you will not attend my party ohhh very sad I will miss you came we will play lots of game. I am giving excuse for you only so came without gift...kanjus..hahhaha...jusk kidding
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
19 Sep 11
I have done this! There have been a few parites I really wanted to attens and did. I didn't have money for a gift and went anyway. One time I did this the person was not happy! Hey! I was broke and I thought they would understand! Not! Then I did it again a few more times and it was no big deal! Sometimes I just want to be around my friends and if gifts are are important,well they aren't friends!
• United States
18 Sep 11
Actually I never have. Even though some will say that it is okay to attend without a gift, I would feel bad if I did not bring a gift. I actually attended a wedding last year which I found very unusual. I am use to being all excited about purchasing that special gift and the invites specifically stated no gifts please. I was shocked and felt a bit uncomfortable, but apparently all the attendees were use to it. While I would not expect a gift if I were hosting the party myself but, it is just out of habit and courtesy that I like to attend with the gift.
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• India
18 Sep 11
Hiii cute dancing girl You are right now in cards specially write one sentence please come without gift but we not feel good to go for the party without gift..and now new way in invent that is return gift means we are attending party and the organizer giving us the gift.. but in my party I will announce no entry without gift so what will you bring for me haha...
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I think yes..maybe.. but one time i attend weeding and yes i bring gift like a frame,very nice ..And then i was happy because they display in their house when i went there... Great..but i do not know if i have to give something to another weeding..
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• India
19 Sep 11
hii befriend You are right when we see the people are using our gift then we feel very happy..I also use my gift also so bring the gift in my kitchen party but sad kitchen party is end.. THis was on sunday..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Sep 11
Hi there! If we are invited in a party, we make sure that we do not attend the party without a gift or/and with a bouquet of roses. We feel if we are invited to a party, courtesy demands we should take along with us any gift. What about you?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Sep 11
Hello BURFI ! :-) I will definitely bring a gift to your party, however, you need to invite me giving full details ...... Lol!
• India
18 Sep 11
Hii laddu your mouth is always open so I feel you wants to laddu for eating haha...yes you can bring any gift other than shoes or chappals haha...
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Hi fantabulous! Here, it is not customary to bring gifts when you are attending a party, at least not in our social class. In higher social classes or in other social circles, people always bring gifts for the celebrant. It has not been my habit to bring gifts when I attend a party. I only always give gifts during Christmas. Sometimes, I give birthday gifts to my godchildren during their special birthday parties like on their first birthday or seventh birthday. Sometimes, if I have extra money, I will give birthday gifts to a friend who is celebrating a birthday. But usually, when my friends are having a party, I just contribute to the party like food or drinks as a form of gift.
• India
18 Sep 11
Hii secre Dont worry I will celebrate my birthday on kitchen party so you came with gift..in my party return gift facility is also there so dont worry but party timing is ending and only 10 people join my kitchen party check it
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
18 Sep 11
I would every time take some gifts when attending parties. The kind of gift and the number of gifts would of course be different depending on the types of parties. If it is a birthday party, that would be some thing of a personal item. If it is an office function, it would be some thing useful to the organizer in organizing the party. That would in any case a token of appreciation for his service.
• India
18 Sep 11
Hiii green wooo thats good I like your habit means you will attend my kitchen party with gift so I am waiting came hurry up and read funny discussion Kitchen Party.. tell me what you will bring for me..
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
19 Sep 11
I think if it is like a party that you are the host of where you invite people to come to try and get them to buy the product that you are selling then no no gift is needed. If it is a birthday party or a wedding or baby shower then yes of course you bring a gift. Not bringing a gift to a birthday wedding or baby shower is just rude in my eyes!
• United States
19 Sep 11
No I do not think you read my respond clearly. If it is a party where people go to buy things then no gift. If it is a party you go to celebrate something like a birthday then yes bring a gift.
• India
19 Sep 11
Hii aman You are right when we enjoy the party then we should go with gift not bringing gift means rude ohhh means you will bring the gift for me in my Kitchen party thats nice...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
That depends on who is throwing a party and what kind of party it is. Sometimes when a friend tagged me which I seldom do..I don't have time to buy a gift or I don't have any idea what the host want then,better not to bring a gift. So,it's all depends on the situation as well. Yes, I did attend a party without a gift.
• India
18 Sep 11
Hii jai In fanta's kitchen party gift is most important because return gift facility is available but in exchange like other gift to you and your gift to others.. ohhh this is depend upon situation tell me you will bring gift in fantas kitchen party I will wait...
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Good day Fantabulus, With regard to your main topic - there are times that I attend parties without any gift at all for the celebrant. But this instance is somehow exception to the rule. As generally, I do bring a gift. Either way, if I will stand on the celebrator's shoe - gift is not a big deal for me. Let say, one of my guest does not brought a gift for me, that situation is fine. Since what is important for me is my guest presence and not the material thing that he or she has brought for me. As my guest presence is as good as he or she brought a gift for me.
• India
18 Sep 11
hii sheila My party is something special so gift are necessary hahah...return gift system and my budget is low so will give you return gift from your gift means your gift to others and others gift to you hha...my mind is business mind..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
18 Sep 11
Hiii funny fanta Actual I attend less party because I have no more time for party but sure I will attend your party and with gift. tell which gift you want..
• India
18 Sep 11
Hii talkative women You attend less party but you should come in my party because without you no funny conversation hahah...my gift is this you should join my kitchen party...with lots of funny jokes..
@shskumbla (3338)
• India
19 Sep 11
Hi I am also attended so many parties. I took gifts and went to the party. I think when we join a party that time necessary to take gifts. Once time I went to my friend's Birthday party. That time my father told me"don't take a big gift.! you can take a small doll." I have attended that party with a small beautiful doll. My friend like that.
• India
19 Sep 11
Wooo shsk means you will attend my party with doll means my gift is fixed great my friend dont worry I will also give you a small teddy as return gift...
@Keola12 (799)
• United States
18 Sep 11
I was always taught that when invited to someone else's house don't go empty handed. Also, if I am invited to a party, I generally take a gift. I feel embarrassed not to.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
i have gone to parties without a gift and if I have a party I dont expect visitors to bring any also. but it really depends on what is being celebrated. if it's a birthday, anniversary or christening then I make sure I bring a gift for the celebrant.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
18 Sep 11
It depends on the person, if I am that close I will bring, but I don't do things just because they are socially acceptable so if we are not no presents just the presence. I would be happy the same way if someone that it's not even close accepts my invitation and comes and I wouldn't expect a present.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Sep 11
No i have never attended parties without any gifts or where I forgot to take the gifts with me. I think I will be embarrassed if I forgot to take gift with me.
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Hi there. I am not fond of attending parties. I only attend if my very close friends or my relatives invites me to go. But then I can still remember the last time I attended a birthday party. That was my cousins friends 18th birthday. actually I was just invited on that same day of the party so I didn't had a time to think and to buy of a gift for the celebrant. Good thing my cousin do have a gift so I just shared it to her. Funny. But for me, whenever you attend a party just see to it that you bring a gift with you. :-)
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
hi there fanta,. hm.. well for me it depends on the party i am attending but usually i don't bring gifts to most party i attend. lol! i am confident enough that there is no "no gift,no entry" rule in most parties. lol! if i was the organizer i would want to receive gifts but if i would attend to some family parties i would not be buying gifts. as for friends sometimes i would if i have some penny but usually i do not. i think they are kinda used to it. they would understand it though.haha what matters for the celebrant is your presence.haha! i think i should wrap myself instead then.. :)