c r i t i s m ---- how do you -- h a n d l e....???

Resolving this kind of attitude is only how to leave it..Leave that such destroyable character that can damage your life and also to others.. Leave it,repent....if not leave it,that will worse and worse..And also avoid people that have that kind of attitude..

There are two types of criticism actually. One is meant to demean or belittle you and one is of constructive type - meant to correct a seemingly wrong way. As to demeaning criticism, i would really return the insult. But with a constructive criticism, i would welcome it. It serves as my motivation to make better of what i am or what i do or say.

Hi busybee I always take criticism in a positive way, only then we can grow That's my policy, we must not take it in an offensive way and curse the person who has critisised us instead if we listen to what he/she has to say in a manner which will be beneficial for us then it would be more productive. If we dont make mistakes we will never learn if people dont criticise us we will never know what we did wrong, So I think criticism either good or bad is essential for everyone's growth

I once had a problem with criticism, then I had to hear it for several years 24/7. The criticism became overbearing and I had several breaks and it became easier. I still have a little problem with social situations, but I try to visualize the situation before I get there. It's more difficult when you don't know what to expect. If you don't know what's expected of you and the fact that you should expect something different from then is how difficult to handle than walking in on a paintgun festival.

First, I used to ignore those things and next,on that situations when ever some one trying to discourage me I never getting nervous and kick out them strongly ,one strong oppose against criticism and negative thoughts is ultimate source of bliss,if any damn come to you for critics use this formula .

Oh i like to be criticised ofcource if the guy yell at me i will ignore him =,but in most cases this is very good because criticism leads to perfection so why not!?

getting criticism is not much of an issue to me, especially if i was to get it from a person i know is no better than me. i would just shrug it off and not mind that person. i would/might just laugh it off either and even prove to that person (in his/her face) that they are wrong. sometimes they are just insecure and found criticism as an approach to pull us down.. but hey no... not me; i won't be bothered than much by this. no freaking way.

I let it go over my head unless it is useful. Most people are t-wats anyway lol

busybee: yes. accepting criticisms is an art. some people do not mind being told negatively about their performance. I get angry when I am given a negative remark over a work I feel I have done well. In respect of works where I have not taken pains, I do not mind accepting negative criticism. It also depends on the person giving the feed back.

Criticsm...gossip...makes the world go round so just mind your own business and go on with your life. Don't allow one person to tear you down, do not allow one to ruin your day, do not allow one person to hurt you, only allow the one person to make you more stronger. Have a pleasant day!

Most of the time, criticism just has to be ignored, unless it is from someone who is qualified to criticize. Most of the time, people criticize for the wrong reasons. Even if someone means well and wants to help, they can be in the wrong place to say something. However, it is important to know the difference.

Great discussion, busybee! There's a lot to consider here, both in the giver and receiver. First, let's take the giver of the criticism. Some people can dish out great constructive criticism without having that "sting" accompanied to it, while other people are definitely throwing criticism with a hearty punch! Therefore, how one responds to the criticism will certainly depend on how the criticism is delivered. Let's take the young lady I was visiting with last Friday. Recently she has started her own business of making custom greeting cards, wedding invitations, thank you cards, etc. All of which are fantastically beautiful, while each design is unique to the person purchasing the card. I was frankly stunned by her creativity and talent. She was telling me about some of her marketing efforts in launching her business, one of which was attending a Chamber of Commerce leads group. When she took her turn to give her "30 second commercial", one of the other attendees in the room piped up saying, "Well, I don't see how you're ever going to make it as a personal handwritten message always has the most impact." I could tell that the young girl was really hurt by this comment in front of so many business people. I indicated to her that she should just let it roll off - frankly, I see on her cards where there is ample room for handwritten notes if the sender felt it necessary. I further told her that I was aware of the woman of which she spoke and to frankly consider the source and forget it. That type of criticism is absolutely unnecessary and needs to be totally ignored. Then, of course, there's constructive criticism which if handed out in a caring and gentle manner feels to the recipient more like help than criticism, and should be taken seriously and very possibly acted upon. Should that person passing out the constructive criticism be around, the recipient should seek the person out in the future to assist with making the corrections suggested. Long and short, the way to manage the criticism would certainly depend on the type of criticism delivered.

I try to ignore it. It doesn't matter what some people tell about you. If they criticize me for my own good, I accept and try to fix it but if they are judging me for something that can make me sad or feel bad about myself I try to ignore and move on. Like I say: "Look at yourself before criticize others". :)

i accept criticisms if it could help me improve myself but if it could destroy me, it would be another story..i would just ignore it if it isn't helpful..i don't care what other people say especially if they're just trying to destroy my life.