He's not that into you

September 18, 2011 6:38pm CST
What is the best way to turn a guy down?
6 responses
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Just tell him directly. Tell him "hey you're a very nice person and I think you deserve a worthy girl, it's just not me." Just tell him directly.
@bodhi_91 (191)
• India
29 Sep 11
Explain him softly that you two are really not made for each other. Couples are chosen by God and once chosen, we don't have any option to change that. If we try, things go worse. And you are not really the girl for him, he deserves a much better girl whom God has chosen for him. So best is to wait till that gal comes to his life and finds him. You can promise to be with him and wait together for that girl being a friend.
@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Just tell him that you are not interested. If he's the kind of person whose company you enjoy but not interested in dating in then you could say that your feeling for him are more as a friend.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
The best way I think is to be direct but to let him down as gentle as you can. Don;t go around the bush though, just tell him that you are not interested. The worst thing you can do is to lead him on to thinking he has a chance. Just be honest but try to be nice at the same time. Adn oh yea don;t make it sound that you pity him, that's not cool.
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
just tell him straight to the point that you do not really feel something special from him. Tell him as soon as possible so that he could not blame you in making him wait for you.
• United States
25 Sep 11
tell him you are not interested. in him.