Can life be a complete success? But a total failure?
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
September 19, 2011 6:13am CST
In my opinion life is like a game, you need to know when to cheat and how to do best, you have to know how to play right in front of others, to know when to go head down and when to raise your head up. Life for some of us is like a ladder for me but from the beginning was like a "lift" or ground or floor. What I agreed at that time, I always liked to risk, to be the best in everything you do, do not take this advice and opinion to anyone, I want to believe that as long as you trust yourself, you think and you are not able even to May your account by anyone advice. Life is very simple if you look very complicated in whole or in part if you look at every detail, it depends how you want to watch. I never understood why everyone wants absolute success but most remain only desirable, because of the fact that a "friend" tells you that it is impossible? or as others have tried and still failed? if he is less confident and if you really want you to get there do not get stopped for nothing, regardless of consequences, to reach a higher floor as of life should know, and when to make compromises, people are necessarily bad but every time before you make evil good, kind "and if you lose everything and run out of anything?" or "Are you crazy? nobody has done that "if you want to get someone must know when to risk and how to risk, do not pay attention to all evils. The more you risk even more than you earn more but also lost, so life is a fun game but the logic must be primarily very confident in yourself and not let yourself influenced by those looking to put different obstacles or discourage you, always stand for your opinion in front of others. You do fashion, they just follow you. Why make everyone do as they can find a way to make everyone to follow you? If you're really confident you will surely concede.
Can life be a complete success? But a total failure?
6 responses
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
19 Sep 11
Yes,life is really a game,you can try your best to win meanwhile you must get ready to face and receive the coming defeat.Anytime you cannot get too excited before a win or a lose.That's life.Good luck!
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
20 Sep 11
For each success is defined differently.
Most times, we believe that we failed when we have not still alive results that we have proposed (as if there would be no second chance or "time" to get them) when we have expectations in life should have certain things (most times they have others and we do not have or remember that it was better), etc..
Someone said that the walls are there to see how much we want one thing or another. Perhaps before you take that thing I want you gone through various stages.
Thanks for response.
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
19 Sep 11
That is an interesting thing to think about. There are many times where people are going to win time and time again but there is some dubious underhanded nature to their victories. Perhaps they cannot stand losing. Perhaps their egos cannot take the proper beating. Therefore, they are going to succeed and succeed, without knowing how to handle failure.
That in many ways, is a failure in itself. For those who succeed for their entire lives so far, the fall is much harsher than your average person to say the very least. There are going to be a lot of people who try and game the system, that they cannot handle the taste of defeat. The greatest failure can be a success with what you learn from it but too much success can be a failing.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
20 Sep 11
Yes, failure is good! Why? All we fail, but not all will benefit from this.
To succeed you have to look at failures and obstacles as opportunities to learn. Nobody goes through life without a taste of failure and success, only up to us and how they taste so we go on further success.
Thanks for response.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
25 Sep 11
Life can be a success and a failure at the same time. It all comes down to happiness. You could be very successful, have all the money and things your heart desires, but be very miserable at the same time. Thats what I mean. Life is a game, like chess. But we are all a product of our environment. Each one of us were brought up with certain values. I grew up with traditional parents, I was always told that you have to work for someone else to make a living. Work hard and you will get ahead. I was always discouraged from doing things on my own when it came to making money. I had ideas as a child and a young man, but I was always told, you can't do this or you can't do that. I followed all the advice I had gotten and it got me nowhere fast. Now I hit a wall. I love my parents and they were just looking out for me, but their advice did not help me in the long term. Now I must start over. In addition to that, there were some other things that happened in my life. They were also life changing.
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
21 Sep 11
I think life offers us so many possibilities that even extremes are likely to happen;it's very difficult to define a complete success and I'm sure this has different meanings for every person,but I also think most people aspire towards this ideal and very few reach it;most of s have to declare themselves pleased with a little success or just a plain and ordinary life,and if we're not satisfied with that and want more from life we have to assume some risks;I don't think there can be a completely safe road to success,it's impossible not to encounter dangers on the way and sometimes they hit us,and in some occasions can even lead us to the complete opposite of what we wished,which is total failure,so definitely there is complete success,but there is also total failure,but there is also the middle way.The worst thing that can happen to a person is to reach the heights of success and then suddenly fall into the abyss of failure;this is the worst-case scenario I can think of.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
When i was new playing games, i always failed,but that is make me think how to get to level 1 r 2..
You can't get complete success if you will not face the difficulties, and it depends on you if you keep moving..
The more you keep going, the more you keep going near to the end...
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
20 Sep 11
Yes, life has ups and downs ... it's impossible to have complete success throughout life, at all levels! And failure as only those who have succumbed, had his mind too dark to see a way out! There is a balance in all ... it depends on you as an individual, you can maintain balance, to sneak, to climb, especially knowing when to go.
Thanks for response.
