it is not the gesture that gives the pain, it is the word that truly marks..
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
September 21, 2011 3:05am CST
A pleasant day fellow mylotters,
I really don't know why there are some people who will make their remarks for the sake that they have said anything. As they are not thinking how to deliver the word smoothly. They do not care at all if the words they will going to throw will somehow hurt their fellow.
As I remember what my Grandfather usually told me, if you will not say something good, better to keep your mouth shut. Because sometimes, it is not the gesture that gives the pain, hence, it is the word that truly marks inside the heart.
2 responses
@bamikalipal (588)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
I agree with you, airasheila! Words can be deadlier than brain cancer. I don't know why some people can be so tactless and thoughtless. If we can follow the golden rule, life would be so much easier. In my opinion, the less we say, the more we can hear and learn. Have a nice day, my friend.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
That's very true my friend. A slap on the face could be forgotten, but not a degrading word that tramples your well-being. The hurt and impact on you will forever be etched in your heart and mind.
