How I wish I can foresee what will be my life in the future..

Philippines
September 21, 2011 9:08am CST
I really do not know how to handle my life anymore. I am not that old but I feel to weary. As, trials do come one after another. As in everyday, I will not end the day without meeting again another trial. Most of the times, I don't know how to smile anymore. How I wish, I have the power to foresee what will be my life in the future. But, unluckily, I don't have that.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
22 Sep 11
We cannot foresee what will happen to our lives in the future. We can take some precautions and gain wisdom so that we will make better decisions. Still, anything can happen as life is very uncertain. However, we can get to know God better so that we will have the assurance that ultimately all will work out for the best. Doing that will improve even our present life and whatever comes our way, we will not be alone in dealing with it. We can also find good friends that will help us if the road becomes too difficult at times.
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@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
if you can forsee the future, then there wouldn't be any thrill in loving your life. Every time we are in the middle of fork roads, either you choose this or choose that is purely in our judgement and picking, whatever road you pick life must go on. Life is like an ultimate game, no cheating and no skipping, the only thing you need is to pick what will you do next.
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• United States
22 Sep 11
You realize if you can for see the absolute future you will be powerless to change it. If you see something in the future you don't like then you won't be able to change it because if you did change it then you didn't see the future. That would cause a paradox because if you copy what you see then there is no original idea behind it. Seeing your own future will result in a temporal paraodx regardless.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
hi, i think everyone wanted to foresee their future,so that they can change those bad things could happen to them and also to be prepare on the future they have,but we are not so perfect to have that kind of extra ordinary power.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
hi, i think everyone wanted to foresee their future,so that they can change those bad things could happen to them and also to be prepare on the future they have,but we are not so perfect to have that kind of extra ordinary power.
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hi,you do not have to worry about what difficulties i know it is hard and hurts as human,and we have to taste that because person without experiences in hard times is useless.. So that is life part, and we can't escape from it, and i know it hard how to feel when you have problems.. we do not expect,but just expect that there is more than that..You can bear it because yu are over control on that..Do not let the problems control you but you let control to keep away from sadness,but keep still positive so you will be weary or low down feeling...
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
Hi there Aira Sheila! I'm sorry to hear about that. I think that it is normal to encounter problems and hardships in life. Through them, we are given opportunities to learn, to be stronger and to be a better person. I think you just have to learn to count your blessings and find inspiration and strength through your loved ones, your family and friends or even for life itself. It's always nice to turn to God when you feel that you can't find the strength to move on.
• United States
21 Sep 11
I am sorry you are feeling this way. I think the hardships make us stronger, but it is difficult at times to see your way through. Forseeing that could be good because you would have the power to change the outcome. So I can see where that would be useful. I hope that the hard times hurry past you. I know things seem to come in seasons just like the weather. Some days it's cloudy, and other's it's sunny. Hang in there through the cloudy times.
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
Hi airasheila. Trials are not punishments, but lessons, tests and learning experiences. Yes, you can plan your life by setting goals and striving to achieve those goals. Have faith in yourself and have faith in Someone who is always there to show you the way and pick you up each time you fall. There are times when I am down. I pick myself up by playing the song by the Air Supply, Just As I Am. This inspire me to hang in there and keep going. God bless you, my mylot friend.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
21 Sep 11
You are not living, you forgot to live and are trying to survive. You have to have a good talk with yourself. Have you ever had dreams, goals? If not go make some, they don't need to be that big at the start but you need something positive to look forward to, to live for. Start with easy goals, small things that make you happy (cup of coffee with cream, movie, magazine to relax, watch a programm without getting disturbed, etc). Don't try to solve every problem at once, give it time, think it over. Write down every day 3 positive things you did that day or which came over you that day. It can be small things as long as you enjoyed them (even enjoyed them for some minutes is fine). You will see those 3 things will get more and more and bigger and bigger. Stay focused on what is positive and take energy out of that. And keep yourself focused at the goals/dreams you have. Decide to be happy from now on. You have to work for that but it is not impossible. And as soon as you feel that way you will see all these trials are over.