For those who have been cheated on and got back together...
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
September 22, 2011 1:36am CST
Please share how was the experience and what happened after you tried to forgive and let the past behind... Was the relationship better now?
What made you realize you can forgive him/her and give the relationship another chance?
did you regret having done so, why or why not?
Hope you can share... I am currently in a dilemna. I feel there is sincerity, but i am afraid of the feeling of being burt, i do not want to always watch and monitor him, i feel like i have been made fool, but i'd say the love is still there... should i give it a chance or not?
4 responses
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Hi, let me share a story! There was a girl who love her first boyfriend so much. He cheated her and he promise not to do it again. The girl forgive and forget and trust him again. After a year, it happened again. He cheated for the second time. That time the girl realize that the boy will never change so she decide to broke up with him. The girl found a new love and this man marry her, for 12 years he never cheated her. The girl I'm telling is me... ;)
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Hi Mhai. thank you so much for your response. I have actually broken up with this guy who cheated on me last year and its been more than a year now that we are no longer together. I have not talked to him since a few months ago and is now, well happily in a relationship with another guy who should prove to be different from the previous one. It was really hard to trust again, but i managed to overcome the fear i had and i guess i should be able to have a better life now. I wonder if my ex was really sorry or that if he feels true love for me back then. But since he let another woman challenge our relationship then i guess he is not worth it after all. I am better off now, i know i am and well, i I should just feel thankful that God did not allow me to be stuck with a cheating person.
@psphacker (1053)
• United States
22 Sep 11
If my girlfriend cheats on me I will never go back with her.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
When my ex boyfriend cheated on me, I am still ready to forgive him. However I think we can no longer be back together since its a different case already. Trust is no longer there and I think love as well. So it is useless if we will revive our relationship.
