what you think of being single?

September 22, 2011 2:10am CST
i dono what to post on here guys but seriously thinking that being single is not a good thing too.. some say single is cool, but some say single can be miserable too.. look at those single guys out there. They are like desperate over love. How do you explain that?
8 responses
@kry893 (222)
• Canada
26 Sep 11
Being single can be fine too because there is alot of freedom with the things you want to be able to do. For example, your own interests that you can pursue and if you should a partner who doesn't seem to like your interests much, then that can be problem too but I guess there are the pros and cons of having a single life.
27 Sep 11
i understand that when in a relationship, you might tend to forget about your besties, coz thats how my friends are, as long as they got gfrens they start neglecting me.. thats why sometimes i feel agitated
@psphacker (1053)
• United States
22 Sep 11
I think that if your single and you like one of your friend's you should let them know before somebody else does so they can be your girlfriend/boyfriend not somebodies else.
22 Sep 11
but what if that girl rejects your offer? and says either this.. 1) i have a boyfriend already or 2) you're not my taste. 3) i'm not someone you can like 4)i have to think back again..
• United States
24 Sep 11
Ricki already basically stated my stance on being single. I like being single some of the time, but I certainly don't want to be single forever. On the other hand, I don't want to run out and get into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship and getting all my girlfriends off my back. I want to be in a relationship that really means something, might actually go somewhere.
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
well, being single is not bad at all. .though you feel alone but being single is cool. .you can do what you want . .you still have your friends and family out there. .
@Harmonics (251)
• Philippines
24 Sep 11
Objection. Not all single guys are miserable. Not all are desperate for love really.
@qinjuan (20)
• China
24 Sep 11
Sometimes you will feel lonely when being single.specially most friends around us been feel in love.but I don't think it is a bad condition.it means you have more freedom,more spare time to do what we want.For example we can read some books good for our life do some valuable things with some friend. we can make a progress by learning,and get prepare to waiting for our princess or prince Best regard!
@monmon20 (58)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
my thoughts on being single...?? hmmm.. well i have been single a year already. didn't think that i can get through life being single. i was dreading this life because the though of not being with someone who you love and who loves you back. but what i realized is that i only lost one people who loves me. that is when i saw and feel that many people loves me. being single is not that bad. it is our reaction to being single what makes us think that single is not a good thing. right now i am just enjoying life by myself. well i do miss being in a relationship but this feeling makes me strong and proud to say that next time around i won't be afraid to be single. being single is being with more people enjoying other paople's company not only just one person.
22 Sep 11
oh well, it depends on the way you look at it. :)) all i can say is that, wait for your turn. God has good plans for you. SMILE. guys who are so desperate over love are guys who do not know what it's like to really love someone. oh well, that's just my opinion. wait for a real relationship, not relationshit. :)