Apologies are meaningless without understanding
By megamatt
@megamatt (14290)
United States
September 22, 2011 8:40am CST
I think that each and every one of us has had to apologize to someone, somewhere. Mostly because it is the right thing to do. However, some of us tend to be too quick to apologize. We don't full understand what happened, we don't take time to think. Without the proper understanding, "sorry" is just a five letter word that is no different from anything else. I think that apologizing right away might put our minds slightly at ease but we don't really understand anything. We need a day or so to think, and really understand what just happened. Otherwise the hurt might only be slightly dulled with a meaningless apology.
2 responses
@writersolutions10 (497)
• India
22 Sep 11
Apology is the right thing to do at right time. we should not delay if we have committed the mistakes. Nobody does mistakes deliberately and if it is done like that then there will be no excuse for that. Even the apology also not to be taken. It is up to the person but according to me there will be no excuse.
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
22 Sep 11
I'd rather not be apologized at all if it is without meaning. Granted, I think that I am a very forgiving person(well at least more so than most, not that its saying much) but I think that there are times where people are not simply learning from their mistakes. Granted, we can all have time to cool down but the damage has been done no matter if we waited five seconds or five hours or whatever, but still without any understanding of what happened, a hollow, empty apology, just out of obligation is just rather meaningless to me. Still some people would disagree and I do accept that as a fact, even if there is a danger of the problems blowing up about ten times as worse later if the proper understanding is not put through an apology. Thanks for responding, its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@nanayangel (7877)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hi there Mega Matt!
Yup, committing mistakes is a part of being human and sometimes, even unintentionally, we hurt the persons that we love. We need to apologize but we need to remember that apologizing doesn't just mean that you are sorry for what you have done or how you made a person feel but it comes with an unspoken promise that you will never do that again.



