Why do some woman think it is great to sleep around

@joystick (1675)
September 25, 2011 6:57am CST
I think that if you are happy with the person that you are with, then there is no need to sleep with another person, or other peoples partners.I feel sorry for the people that get hurt due to their partner sleeping around.I think that knowing that their partner may have been with a person that has been known to be a bed hopper and a person that has had std is bad enough, but to have it advertised is as bad as the fact as well.
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@Timeout (419)
25 Sep 11
Men do that too not only women, so I think the correct and appropiate thing to say would have been "why do some people think it is great to sleep around", because if not, it looks like only women think like that and not men. I think it's horrible people that haver partners and are unfaithful, if you want to have affairs here and there, don't have a partner. Same with single people that try to hit on other that are already taken and they know it, that is despicable. But I don't see any problem on people that think it is great to sleep around and they are single and not hurting anyone else in the proccess. There are actually a lot of methods to avoid STDs such as preservative. So there is no problem at all.
@joystick (1675)
25 Sep 11
The people that i am on about are the ones that have in the past had a std, yet they are the ones that share it with others when they sleep around with other peoples partners/ husbands, so that the partner/ husband gets the std as well.I think that if partners/ husbands want to sleep around, then they should at least get a check, knowing what they have slept with before having bed time with their wife or partner.
@Timeout (419)
25 Sep 11
When a woman sleeps with the husband of another woman, it's not only her fault, the man is another to blame too, one doesn't sleep with another if both don't want (otherwise it's a rape), that hypothetical husband was also the first who has to be faithful to his partner and he didn't, so we can't blame only the woman. If the woman is single, she is free to do what she wants, regardless of her acts being correct or not.
@tjburcham (690)
• United States
25 Sep 11
I agree. People don't think about the long term effects of their actions, just live in the moment. It catches up with you one way or another.
• United States
25 Sep 11
I have to agree with you as if it not an std, surely they have to be feeling a void of some type.
• China
26 Sep 11
In our China, our culture is still very traditional in most parts of mainland. If a woman sleep with another man without marriage she is considered as a bad woman, let alone sleep with other men. And I think it is not a good thing and a proud thing to tell as well.
@m_perez (506)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Some people just dont have enough "spice" n their relationship so they sleep around with feeling the rush from not having been caught. People are crazy nowadays.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
It's their way of spending their life and lives in the way they want. yes, it hurts to know your partner sleeps with another person and sometimes it's the cause of the break ups. Love is full of trials and this is just one of them. But if we survived it, then ours is the sweet victory!
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
30 Sep 11
I don't understand it myself. Unless they are hookers, there is no reason to do that. If the person is not happy with their partner, they should just tell them out right instead of cheating. I was a victim of this myself.
• United States
25 Sep 11
As others have said, it is not just women that do this it is men as well. I am not sure why people cheat, but I believe that there are probably different reasons, because people are different. I suspect that two of the biggest reasons are ego and self-centeredness, but I am sure that if you asked people why they cheat and they were to give you what they believed was an honest answer, then you would get a variety of reasons.
• United States
25 Sep 11
As everyone is responding above some men do it too. Why they do it is unclear, the ones I know have a insecurity complex issue. There is not reason why they must be with so many different people all the time. I bet it leaves a void and or emptiness in them each time. They perhaps are voicing that it is fun and great but deep down inside I am sure there is something missing and they cannot being feeling so great about themselves.
• Indonesia
25 Sep 11
it not just women my friend, men too. and make me thing is: why love just about s3x? no, not just that. some people do that just for fun, that what they said. if just for fun, have they have fun with their problem cause that? let's thing more deep, what is life, what is love.
@rose1717 (190)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Personly I would feel sorry for a woman who is sleeping around with married men. I would think that she would do that because she feels insecure with her self and has very low self confidence. Married men are safe to them because it is eaither a one night thing or they know that they don't have to comit to them. I would also be upset with the husband because it is wrong to cheat on the wife that they claim to love. I would rather my husband leave me then cheat on me. If he doesn't love me enough to not cheat on me then he has no busness being with me or staying with me. That is how I see it.
@Angelee_27 (3460)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Perhaps they want a variety? I don't know. I've never understood why a man or woman likes to sleep around, or thinks that it's okay. I believe, that if you want to sleep with many different women or men, that you should not be in a relationship until your are ready to be committed and faithful to someone. If you are not ready, you should not be in a relationship because you are doing nothing but hurting your partner. However, you should know, it's not only women who do this. Both men and women sleep around. So, it is not really fair to only ask why women sleep around.