My ex is bitter.

@dyeni23 (128)
September 25, 2011 3:43pm CST
I have always believed that after a relationships ends, you don't have to be bitter to get better. It's just not the proper way of coping and it's not good for the heart too. I believe that respect should still be there though you both part ways and for the sake of that once upon a time, you've both loved each other. So my thing here us that, I thought my ex and I are already on a peaceful note when I broke up with him, 5 months ago. He did told me though he hasn't move on yet but he wishes for my happiness. He and I were in a very rocky road 3years relationship. I am in a relationship now, just recently. My ex and I have 0 communication already. And just tonight I have friends telling me that my ex is so pissed as he'll with me. I'm clueless of how can he feel that way when he's even the reason why we broke up and things aren't working. I feel thankful though for all the years iced shed for him, for if those years weren't there, and all the pain.. My good karma wouldn't have came into my life and I'm still stuck trying to work out a relationship with no trust. Guys, what do you think? Should I let this one go or confront him?
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4 responses
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 15
I think you should enjoy what god gave today and forget about your past with ex. Trust me this is a better way for you to escape from a recurring problem if you go back to your ex.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
30 Sep 11
dyeni23, I do not see any point you wanting to confront your ex when everything you learn so far is from a hearsay. People may say anything or even have the wrong interpretation of things - which is humanistic. So, I rather that you let this one go and let the both of you move on with your lives.
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Let sleeping dogs alone. You broke up years ago (and for good reasons, you say). I think he probably misses you and is frustrated. But if he wants to be ciivl and be friends with you, you are free to consider. If I were you, I would simply leave him alone to his devices, especialy since he talks bad about you to your friends. That is disrespectful and not a good sign.
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
the question is "do you still love him or not?"if you do then let yourself be happy having him around but if you feel that you don't love him anymore then go back...life is too short to waste being unhappy!!!maybe it is the time that you confront him once and for all the two of you must talk to each other...good luck girl!!!i wish for your happiness...