"the fewer needs you have , the happier you become..."

@janevi (888)
Philippines
September 27, 2011 7:38pm CST
This is one of my favorite adages from a saint who had lived this kind of life. It always reminds me how to live simply and be happy with what I have. To be able to live with little yet contented and happy is quite a challenge but it is possible. To some it is quite difficult especially for people who have been used to live in abundance. To live in simplicity is to live within ones capacity and still able to give to those who are in need. It is also like living in simple abundance. Many of us have been influenced by the materialistic world we have today and oftentimes, they are not aware that they already get entangled into the this kind of lifestyle. Is it still possible to live happily with the little that you have nowadays?
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@picjim (3002)
• India
28 Sep 11
Those are high but difficult ideals for most of us to follow.If one can really adhere to the simple life with minimum wants and giving to the needy it is indeed an ideal way to live.In the present materialistic life there are few who follow these high principles.This materialistic existence which lays emphasis on materialistic wants leads to a vicious circle where one want is satisfied and another crops up.One can with a determined attitude and high morals stick the principles you've mentioned about.
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@janevi (888)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
A materialistic world we have indeed , where one need is satisfied another created need crops up is very true. But if one can have the self discipline and determination 'to save' for his future,and setting aside the wants or procrastinate some of the needs, then it would be very possible also to live in that'high ideals/standards' of values. Big things begin from simple things and reaching that 'high morals' will not be far to realize.:-)
@ur4mae (217)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
I believe so. The happiest people are those who are content with what they have. The desire to have more sets a pressure that can stress or depress, especially when failures come.
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@janevi (888)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
If one wants to live happily, they should live in simplicity. Desiring for one thing is not bad especially if it is a need but to desire for more that can cause stresses and pressures, than , one should let go of it and be contented with what she/he has.
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@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
i like this quote janevi and i would like to apply this in my life. i will be cutting down on buying things that i dont really need and i will focus more on my saving. thank you for posting such inspiring messages
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
It's a pleasure to share something worthwhile. These are just simple thoughts but when they are put into action, can make a difference in one's life and the people around her/him.
@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
28 Sep 11
The greediness makes many people lose their mind. A lot of corruptions could be prevented if people didn't want money in first place. It starts with the government , the local authorities and people to their friends. After all , people need food and water to live , a roof to sleep under , and love for each other. Maybe some spare money for an accident or I don't know. Many people have a lot more money than what they really need for themselves and for their kids and for their family. Some of them don't have the time to enjoy what they have. I always try to want less and be satisfied with what I have. My tip for everyone is to have fun of simple things like walking and playing outside , help their family and care about each other.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
29 Sep 11
If I ever get the chance to be rich , I will to use my money in a way that will help the society buy things for lower costs . I think rich people have to think how much money they really need for their life and what they can donate so they will share their money or donate it is some way to help the society and not only for themselves. Many people get a lot of money for doing nothing and this is just wrong for the society.
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
rightly said Stringer. Greediness is the root of all the evils in our society. In its broad sense, it is the cause of the world's financial condition at this time. The lack of realization of he consequences of having that kind of attitude make a lot of people to suffer in misery. Some made it a choice to live in misery and poverty but there are many who strive to live a decent life , work hard and yet it just seem to be elusive for them because of some few greedy people. The craving to have more in life is very vicious. Because of man's nature that is insatiable the tendency to hoard is common but at the same time we can't also generalize. Since this is only a tendency, there is a great chance to curb and change. There is hope in other words.
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
With the consciousness how to utilize your resources, there will always be something for those who are in need. 'You don't have to be rich in order to give. It is enough to be good. Because one who is good will always have something to give. "
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
Hi janevi! I completely agree with you that the fewer needs we have the happier we become. Yes, as for some this is quite an idealistic way of living but it can be done. We are the masters of our life and happiness is something that we can create for it is a choice. I strongly believe that the simplest things tends to make a person happy and I can attest to that. I have my jar of happy thoughts that I open whenever I feel sad and face a lot of difficulties in life. And looking back, I noticed that most of them are not due to material possessions that I have. In fact, my happy memories are the smile and hug of my boyfriend who is now my husband, the very first time I cradle my new-born child, my child's first step, the smell of rose in my mother's garden, the cool breeze that touch my cheeks early in the morning, the butterfly kisses that my daughters give me every time they come home from school, the tight hug that my daughters give me every time she sees me shed tears when watching one of my favorite TV soap. These are just some of the priceless treasures that I hold dearly in my heart. They inspire and make my heart sing and feel endless joy. I know that it is hard to simplify one's life especially if you are surrounded by consumerism. But I always think of our needs first instead of want. And I make it a point to cherish friends old and new, to prioritize relationships over money. Moreover, I always remember to feel grateful for all the blessings that God has given me. Most of all for the gift of wisdom that He showed me to know what matters most in my life and what makes me happy.
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Hi Annelisle. In our world of simple abundance, we can always be contented and happy with whatever we have. Having so much of material wealth is not a measure for happiness but the 'jars of happy thoughts' that is collected through time. Having good experiences and happy memories of the good deeds you have done are indeed priceless treasures worth to cherish. These are the simple ways one can really attain happiness and bliss in life. If most of us have that 'jars of happy thoughts' may be there would be equal distribution of these world's good. Because they would be busy collecting happy thoughts and experiences and not material things that are temporary and very fleeting. You have them today and gone tomorrow. Simple lifestyle is an option chosen by very few people. People who have realized what really is the source of their joy and the true worth of joy. That is not in having so much of material wealth of this world but the wealth of goodness we have done , the love we have shared and the people who have loved us.That is the essence of true happiness.
@Sabrene (24)
• Saudi Arabia
28 Sep 11
Hi there Janevi, how you doing? At last you have stirred up this topic. Needs depend on where you draw the line. It's like if you have less income, you have to curb your needs and live on basic necessities. If you have more income, even your needs increases. The definition of NEEDS differs from person to person. Yes, it is a materialistic world. People usually buy over and above their basic necessities mainly for the purpose of showing off. One rule of the book is : Save some for the rainy days. Some people live frugally and save. Those who mint money increase their needs and go to places where they never have been to before...like branded outlets. And there are other types who live a careless and carefree life...who spend and waste recklessly. The one you call Spendthrifts. It's like once you are on the ground, you like it, adapt yourself to it and accept living on the ground. But once you start soaring high, you want to go higher and higher and it's really hard to come down and it hurts like hell if you fall face down.
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
Hello Sabrene! I'm doing well. I was trying to think of another title for this but I thought that it would be more appropriate to retain it because it is more catchy and appealing. hahahaha Yes, needs can vary from person to person. It is subjective and only the person himself can draw the line. It depends on one's perception. It can be a need for somebody but it is just want for someone. A person's needs increases with the increase of his income. But there is always a choice. If one chooses to increase his needs, its his prerogative and besides, he is the one who take the consequences of the choices he make. Buying things for the purpose of showing off only is not a wise move especially these days. One should be a wise spender. For me it is quite an abuse of one's buying capacity and insensitivity to realities of the world. It is this kind of attitude why there are many poor people.Anyway , that would be another topic worth discussing/sharing in the future.:-) It is always good to save for the rainy days. It makes one ready for whatever emergencies that might come on their way. Living frugally and living luxuriously are oftentimes personal choices. I have a lot people who maintain a frugal way of life even if they are well off and have the capacity to buy all the things they want but opted to live simply . According to them, simpler lifestyle, is better than to go with the tide of society. It's tiring and stressful. :-) With that, I prefer to live simpler and happier.
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Sep 11
I think I'd be a lot happier if I had less. My and my husband's possessions have made slaves of us. I can't make full use of what I have because there is too much stuff I don't need on top of it and around it. It just takes so much time and effort to deal with it to even get rid of it. If there were someone who would just come take it off my hands -- useful and useless alike -- I'd just hand it over. But boxes containing papers have to be sorted to make sure I don't throw out something the tax man might ask for later, or some important document that wasn't put away in the right place. Because of identity theft issues, boxes of stuff have to be shredded before they can be thrown away. Other things have to be recycled. Other things have to be transported to thrift shops or rummage sales. I would be quite content with a simpler life style. I'm contented with what I have, enough to eat and drink, a home to live in, a car to get around in, beauty around me to walk in, plenty to do that can be enjoyed with no cost, enough to pay the important bills, and enough books to keep me reading for life. And, of course, a computer to stay in touch with the outside world.
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
That would be a great step to do bagarad.:-) Simple lifestyle is what we need to be more appreciative of the many things around us and what we already have. I have this habit of cleaning my locker every semester. Cleaning in the sense that I remove the clothes and other things I don't usually use , and give them away to charity, to avoid accumulating them and crowding my closet and to maintain one cabinet for my stuff.At end of the year I don't have a hard time cleaning and arranging my things because I only have few things left. It feels good. It serves double purpose, cleaning my closet and helping other people.