How would you discipline a child stronger than you?

Molly Hayes - yeah she can lift a schoolbus
Calgary, Alberta
September 27, 2011 8:02pm CST
this is a fantasy thread but what we may learn in this topic could be applicable in real life. The picture below is Molly Hayes, she is a non costumed superhero,she is an 11 year old girl who is powerful, her punch can kill a regular person, she can carry a monster the size of a building and she defeated Wolverine ....yes the famous X-men member Wolverine . she will be in the superhero movie "The Runaways" Overpowered children have been popular material in movies,comicbooks, cartoons and anime. If your child suddenly developed super powers, how would you discipline him/her if pissing him/her might accidentally kill or injure you? How can you show authority as a parent if your kid is too powerful.
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@jodylee (946)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I don't try to control my children or make them belief the way I do. I don't punish them if they don't follow my mold. I do teach them respect and honor. I teach them tolerance and I teach them to be humble. I teach them how to react to their emotions and to the emotions of others. I do not resort to physical or emotional punishment. I set a good example and I give my children the space to learn and grow. I would hope that if they had super powers and super human strength that I would teach them to use it for good, long before they would get upset enough to resort to violence, with me or with anyone...
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
so if you have a child with superpowers you will try to be a good example do they will be good people.Children have tendencies to emulate what they see. Kudos to parents whocan keep their child calm, no super powers can surpassed good parenting skills.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
I just realized Ipostedthis discussion in wrong category -_-
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@jodylee (946)
• United States
28 Sep 11
The whole philosophy of "do as I say not as I do" is what tends to create monsters out of children. I strongly believe we create our children out of our own actions. Hopefully I am right here because I am putting a lot of stalk of my parenting in this...
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@guegui (17)
• United States
28 Sep 11
OK I have to be a little biblical, the bible states that if we spare the rod, we spoil the child. Now I am not saying one must beat up on a child but when the child requires a spanking, give it to them and it it means a time out then that is acceptable to. One can also take away things a child love to discipline a child.
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• Calgary, Alberta
29 Sep 11
we wont be able to spankachild that can beat down an army though, LOL its like the worse case a parent have to handle. a writer should be able to use this plot for sure,
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Sep 11
It is not the child as a teenager that you should worry about. All of the ground work with regards to this should be done during childhood as this means that they will learn the boundaries much sooner than the time that they become stronger than you. Assuming that you have done this ground work, your child should respect you enough when they are older not to use their extra strength against you. I know that I am stronger than my Father for example, but yet I always take instruction from him if there is any reason for me to need to.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
I just realize that the Most dangerous stage on raising a kid with superpowers is going to be their teenage years. As you said they have to be carefully guided on their childhood because on their teenage years there is potential that they will end up being a chaotic teenager. It's something they have to be careful about.Someone who is stronger can be tamed, I mean Lions can be fought to be cute as kittens, so I guess raising a lion is similar to parenting a with super powers
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@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
I'll probably follow how Clark kent's parents raised him. Shower them with love and affection and they'll grow up to be the greatest superhero this world has seen.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
he is raised well for sure, outside being a superhero he is a well educated man, he sticks with 1 woman and he is very polite. he stands for what he believes in
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Honestly, I don't know how to answer your question here at all. I bet you that you gotta read a lot of those comic books, and you might daydreaming one of those superhero from comic books. You might think how could your parents tame you down if you suddenly gain a super power of your own. Could that be a cool thing?
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
28 Sep 11
I just try to teach their children and respect. I can not control them at any time so it is very important to teach them different things. It is important that we can educate the rest do not know. luck and success. nice day!
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
how can you calm the tantrums of a child that can kill an army?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 11
hi carefully very carefully . ]this is hypothetically of course, but out think them , out smart them and make them think before doing naughty things.Surely an adult with moderate intelligence can out think even a super power brat. maybe you would have to carry a weapon but try brain power first. lol
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@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I don't really think of taking care of children as "controlling" or showing that you have "authority", but more like inspiring them and advising them on the ways of life. You can never really control another human being, but you can help them learn the ways of life. They're there to make their own mistakes, and learn from them, and all you really can do as a parent is to help them along the way. So even if my child had superpowers and could obliterate me in a second, I would still treat them like an average child, because in the end, she/he is still a child. Happy mylotting!
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
a child respecting his parent may not be able to hurt their parent no matter how powerful they can be. I'm not a parent yet but when the time comes, I want to be respected.I think this situation is comparable to parents of mensa kids.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 11
This thread reminds me of my aunty whose step-son threw her out of the house with her husband who is the father of the step-son. It's strange that when a child grows up and becomes stronger than his parents, he can sometimes become irresponsible and disrespectful. My aunt and uncle now live in another country away from their ungrateful son and have severed all ties with him. Don't know what he'll do if he has the super power you mentioned in your thread. He'd probably just banish all the people who have been against him and become the villain in all the super power movies that we see and has to fight Superman.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
a child who grow up in a loving homemight end up a good person even if they have super powers, I think step sons and step daughters have issues with step parents cos they might still be bitter of the situation
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@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
For me it is not easy specially if they are not good but if they want ore good they find there self in Armageddon.
• Greece
28 Sep 11
its very hard to descipline a kid even if it has no extra powers. kids are generally very hard to control and manipulate. i would not even try to think what a kid might be having super powers.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
sometimes its the kids that ends up controlling and manipulation adults ans yes they have no superpowers. a child with powers sounds chaotic to raise.
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@m4ndr4ke (219)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Just set a good example. Teach her the "Ben Parker" motto "With great powers come great responsibility". Teach her humility, tell her there are beings even more powerful than her. For example a very pissed off Hulk could squash her like a bug, Franklin Richards could just wish her off existence. Galactus wouldn't even notice her, The Thing would just laugh at her. Hercules will just oggle her. and Professor X could just mind wipe her. So she better know her place. And if she is really a pain in the a$$. Well, I have a secret, she got her powers from me. I am his father. I am far more powerful than her. her strength level is only roughly class 80. I am well beyond class 100. I have far more control of my powers. I can fly, I can survive in space, I heal fast, I have destroyed planets and asteroids larger than earth. In other words, i could just spank her in her behind to discipline her.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Sep 11
Ben Parker gave New York city a friendly Neighborhood, Galactus indeed wont notice a little kid with super powers, all he think about is a blue juicy planet he can eat. Speaking of Hulk and Hercules, Hulk's cousin have a 1 night stand with Hercules.
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