Why do someone loves to hurt somebody?
By Jenith
@Jenith (1381)
Philippines
September 27, 2011 9:52pm CST
So many reasons. Bystanders love to hurt someone for fun. Some loves to do it because they have simply nothing to do in their lives. Too much idle time can cause someone's burden. Why don't they just make themselves busy and don't disturb others. Any reaction guys?
9 responses
@Galena (9110)
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28 Sep 11
no. they are not animals. animals love unconditionally. if you treat them well they adore you from the bottom of their souls.
when my RAT, an animal so many consider to be close to nothing spiritually, hears my footsteps on the stairs, she climbs to the highest corner of her cage (which is sort of below the first curve of our spiral staircase) just to be nearer to me.
animals are full of love.
sadly, many humans are not.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Sadly it is withing someone nature to simply hurt those they love. Love should never hurt so unsure if it is love they have for the people they hurt and or simply they do this on purpose. 
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Sadly it does happen but one has to have some self control. No one is perfect so it certainly can happen where one is having a bad day and way over frustrated, but to intentionally hurt, I suppose that in itself can be another issue. I would worry if someone who says loves intentionally caused me pain. Life has it's ups and downs and to be negative all the time surely will ruin the relationship.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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28 Sep 11
but then again hardworking - we all know.. it is far easier to put our frustrations and angers onto those who are closest to us, rather than bashing a total stranger.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Having self-control is what differs us from animals. We are called humans because we know what morality is. Having a bad day is not totally bad if we know how to handle the situation. Being calm may help and think many times before saying anything specially the bad ones.
@snowhybiscuis (1882)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
There's a saying... an idle mind is the playground of evil. There are people who are by nature idle and don't really want to exert effort to do something beneficial to others. I am glad I'm not among them. And I have taken it to my duty to educate children so that they'll grow up to be good citizens and be useful to others. This is the only best way I think we can do to improve society.
Have a nice and fruitful day!
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello,
True! Sometimes I mean it okay? I get stubborn when I dont have things to do but instead of that I just make myself busy here in myLot. right? That is the best thing I can do to stop my boredom and do things that is more helpful. But I know one person who is doing this. His reason is just for fun because he is addicted in bullying others. I know this is not a good thing but I dont have a way to make him stop. 
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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28 Sep 11
Whilst some people are cruel creatures, and take pleasure in hurting others for their own amusement, it needs to be remembered that human beings are vindictive and spiteful creatures and sometimes take vengeance out on others.
It is also important to remember that when we are down, or angry or upset, it is easier to vent these emotions on the people we love. We always hurt those closest to us.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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29 Sep 11
well i'm a firm believer in this..
"dont regret the things you did do, regret the things you didn't.."
so yes, its not nice to take it out on your loved ones, but at the same time, if thats how you were feeling, and you were angry and upset and needed to get it all out, sometimes thats better than locking it all away!
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello,
idle people loves to hurt somebody because they have nothing to do in their lives. .and guess they are happy doing it. .even though sometimes they are busy but their day is not complete if they cannot hurt somebody. .just ignore this people and don't take them seriously. .
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Some people are happy when they hurt someone.
They're kind of people who cannot sleep without doing any bad things to other people.
I don't understand what kind of satisfaction do they ever attain for hurting other people.
They don't even respect the elders,not even to their parents (most of the time)
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
They are making their lives miserable but still no regrets. They're happy with it.
Getting married at an early age and have so many kids. When one is crying the mother will shout to stop them from crying instead of comforting them.
Husband is a drunk man and went home without money.
I can't live with this kind of lifestyle.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Idle people do that. They pass the time by people watching and in the end commenting on everybody's looks. It's as if , they themselves are so good looking !
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 11
it's depend on the people, some do that for revenge, some do that because they envy someone and some do that because they have mental disorder
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Mental disorder is the most appropriate description to that. I think there's no need for revenge 'cause we are all not perfect, no need to envy someone 'cause all of us have flaws. tsk tsk...I'm so disappointed with these kind of people specially if it happened to be your neighbor. An eyesore!
