What do you think about Domestic Violence?
By ruby1459
@ruby1459 (2600)
United States
November 20, 2006 9:23am CST
My ex was a big time DV fan.I know that DV isn't only about physical but also mental as well.The worst one that my ex said to me was "if you don't wanna speak English in this country,we american doesn't want you and get the fu*k out from our country."I am originally from Japan and I was still learning(well I am STILL learning though) English and when I talk to my family etc in my mother language then he gets mad just because of I sometimes prefer speaking my mother language which was Japanese.He didn't wanna learn anything from my country's culture to food,nothing.
He was 6'2" and I am 5'1".He pushed over me and he pulled my hair and dragged me along,punched my face etc and verbal abuse was like every day thing.His family didn't like asian people so they stood for their son.
He filed divorce because I didn't have money at that time
to make an action and I didn't know where to get a help
since I moved from Japan to USA and lived in middle of nowhere
type state.
Now I am happy with who I found and he is totally against DV.
4 responses
@wyykidd (1459)
• Singapore
20 Nov 06
I hate men who beat women. Real men should never beat a women, because by doing so, they are really cowards who try to act like a big shot.
I'm so happy for you that you have found a better person and is happy now. Stay that way!
Cheers :)
@ruby1459 (2600)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Thank you :) Yes he was a big man,you know? he had to beat this 5 foot woman and still laughing to see that I can't protect myself.It was insane.
I am happy that I now don't need to deal with it.I believe no one should be treated like I was.
I appreciate your kind word.I hope you have a happy life as well :)
@rajthegreat (114)
• India
20 Nov 06
violence is in no way good may it be domestic violence. its only a way to keep them shut behind the doors. just to have the things their way,some people use force to make others do what they waht them to do. mainly it is on women but men also are subjected to it in early stages of age or later,but its rare. anyways its not at all right doing so. if you want to convince somebody and u r right then simply words are enough for that and nobody wants to follow your unjust orders.thats it
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