Your Going to Hell?

@payout (3794)
United States
October 6, 2011 3:14pm CST
Today my sister picked me up from work and she ask me so did they aspect my offer for the house I said yes and she said congratulating I said thanks. My grandma is sitting in the car with her. She says after 5 minutes I can't say congratulations because I don't want to see you in HELL .. I said okay. She said you parents pray and gave you to God and I don't want to see you in Hell and that God loves me and so does she I said I know that. I know he loves me. This to me is very disappointing because when my grandma was sick I guess because I didn't have time to see her she got upset and just wanted to find way to make me upset. I'm not upset I'm sure she is surprise on how I reacted her basically telling me I'm going to Hell because I'm GAY and choice of life. I believe that Only God can Judge me. If my grandma knew enough that God doesn't measure sin base on who sin is the worst. I wanted to say Let God be the Judge of that. I'll let her say what she wants whatever makes her feel better. To me if you was sick for weeks and come out saying your going to Hell and so are you.. Etc. She did drugs in the summer did I say she was going to He'll nope. Only God can be the judge of that. I have no part nor saying in what people do with there lives. I'm very disappointed especially hearing this from a elder who I was told only God can judge you. That it takes respect to get respect and that to always respect your elders which I did.. But I'm very disappointed her. I won't say nothing but leave the things the way they are.
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@whateva (786)
• India
6 Oct 11
i'd say, you're the wise one in the family. i don't know about hell and heaven but i'm getting sick of homophobic people. Well, i can't even come out to my family , can't tell them that i'm bi as for where i live and also, most people here find it worse than being gay.
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@payout (3794)
• United States
6 Oct 11
Thank you, Consider myself a smart thinker because I could of said some mean things but I let her just let her have her say and continue with her life and if she wants nothing to do with me I consider it more of a lost for her. Being gay bi transexual it can be a hard life and some people don't care and when they see you happy they just want to make you feel like crap and try to bring you down when you are happy.
@whateva (786)
• India
7 Oct 11
so true, people can be so harsh sometimes. Its sad, ofcourse for them. ^^ what we can do is be stay at our best behavior all the times, good or bad we can't let it affect who we are that is good people.
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@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
6 Oct 11
that is true and that is only one judge and that is god nt her i knw how you feel on that ppl say some crazy things
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@payout (3794)
• United States
6 Oct 11
Yeah people do say some crazy things. I can't believe that came out my own grandmas mouth I feel disappointed by her
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
I can feel you. No person has the right to tell another whether they will be seated at the right hand of the Father or go to hell. Sometimes i hate listening to Catholic priests condemning those who are sinners and telling them they don't have a room in heaven. I am aware that i'm a sinner and i'm also aware that my God is One forgiving God. I don't have to confess my sins to anybody as God alone can forgive me. So i don't confess before a Catholic priests. I shall ask forgiveness only before God.
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@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
actually, were are now living in Hell then why go to Hell? is there another different Hell from a Hell? from what i know, earth (graveyard) is what we call a Hell... is it only the imaginations of Michael Angelo who is responsible to put some pictures of barbecues of fires, flames, burns, plasma, heat...