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possessiveness is like a dual balded axe or something. Well it gives the sign to your partner that you don't trust her that she is loyal to you. On the other hand in might give her assurance that she really is being love, and afraid of losing you. It really depends upon the girl's perspective, on how she thinks of your actions, better know her better first.

It depends upon the relationship and the opponent. It is good to be possessive some times. at times it also create big problems, which may even lead to breaking of the relationship

Being a bit far too possessive would become a big problem in a relationship because it is like you do not trust your partner and it can be very annoying. Imagine no being able to mingle with your friends just because your partner gets jealous. Not only it's stressful on your part, it could also makes you go crazy.

It's not a good thing to be possessive in a relationship, it's even worse when one is over possessive because it leads to jealousy very easily. When jealousy kicks in over little matters in the relationship, it will be tedious, lost of complete freedom and communication breakdown. No matter how much we love someone, we ought to trust them, also give them the freedom they need, most importantly, the confidence in them to handle every situation well.

Welcome to myLot ..I am always happy to see new people because I think the more we have the better this site. About the possessiveness. In my opinion it all depends on the degree. It it's just a little I think it's normal and shows they care. If it is excessive I think it could show insecurity and can be damaging to a relationship. Here again as in so many things in life, moderation should it the best way.

buddy if in a share with a sense of trust relationship is very important, if it was not you guys have a good idea to wrap ..!!!

Hi Motskimotski, Welcome to Mylot! Personally, I think that possessivnece is bad for a relaationtiop. I have been in relationships with guys that are like that and for me, it is a huge turn-off. When I'm with a guy, I want to connect with him and enjoy our time together. I really don't want to spend that time justifying how I spend my time when I am not with him or explaining every person that I talk to. I actually find it insulting. If it gets too overbearing then I have to question why they are even with me if they don't trust me.I'm sure there are some relationships that being possessive would work in. I know there are some that think that is a measure of love. If it works for them and they both are happy, that's all that matters. I guess anything that makes one person FEEL bad in the relationship would be bad.