How do you tell if a girl likes you as more than just a friend?

@rbailey83 (1428)
Canada
October 8, 2011 4:38pm CST
I am usually pretty good at reading body language but for some reason i am clueless when it comes to a girl, for lack of a better word, is "hitting" on me, or has feelings of more than just wanting to be friends. I have read some things on the net about how to tell if a girl likes you but some of them i just don't see that as signs that they like you. So just looking for everyone's feedback on how to tell if a girl likes you as more than just a friend?
3 responses
@Timeout (419)
8 Oct 11
Easy, just check her body language. Body language will tell you if the girl is interested on you or not. If she does, she will do constantly some of these: - Stroke her own hair constantly. She will try to look nice for you. This is something that a girl seldom does when she is alone. If you are talking with her and she touches her hair a lot, that is a good sign. - Her eyes have a special shine. This is not conscious either, having her eyes shine more than usual they try to look affectionate and vulnerable. - They play with their hands or stroke their arms. They do this when they are nervous. This is a primitive instinct. Doing this they try to calm down. - They smooth out their clothes. Same as stroking her hair, they try to look nicer for you. - They wet their lips more than usual. This is related to attraction. - They touch your arm or shoulder without hesitating, maybe trying to get up or sit down. This is a very good sign. - They laugh about every joke you make, even if it's not funny or very simple. Sometimes you can tell that they over react to any of your jokes. Well these are some of the clues that can tell you if the girl is interested on you or not. None of them are conscious most of the times, and the girl does it without noticing. So it has to be you who notices. Good luck with her.
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
9 Oct 11
this is a really awesome list, thank you so much for taking the time to write it, there are definitely some good ways in the list and what to look for, again thank you for taking the time to make this list
@SydneyJ (902)
• United States
8 Oct 11
Timeout I would say this is a really good list of signs a woman gives off when she's interested in you.
@GemmaR (8517)
8 Oct 11
I think that you just have to take a step back from your own situation and think about the signals that she gives to you. If you seems to want to spend a lot of time with you on your own then there is a chance that she might like you as more than a friend. In addition to this, you should try taking a look at the way that she treats her other male friends. If she treats you differently to the way that she treats her other male friends then she might like to have something more from you than she would want from the others.
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
8 Oct 11
thank you, i appreciate the suggestions and they make sense, i will keep those in mind over the next little while.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
8 Oct 11
well i am a girl and i know what i do when i have a crush on somebody. usually i will laugh alot even when nothing is funny. i will also touch the guy i'm talking to alot. i may also try to initiate hugs alot too. and i usually talk way too much and stutter a little.
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
8 Oct 11
Thank you for sharing that with me, makes sense, when it comes to the touching what kind of touching and how often? like touching the forearm or shoulder? and touching outside of a reason to touch i would assume?