How is you when you are 24 years old?

China
October 12, 2011 10:21am CST
I am a 24 guy.And I have just finished my college life which I still very missed.Now I begin my first career ,surely I appreciate my job now.To my sorrow,until now I have no girl friend which often confuses me.I want to get rid of the single life,do you believe me?I like listening to pop music at weekdays and surf the internet after getting of duty.I like making friends with others,no matter where you are from.Oh,I almost forget that,I come from a very beautiful city,Qingdao in China.And you are welcome here.This is my condition at present.What about you?
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11 responses
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
I can still remember that when I was your age, everything was going great! Career, social life and everything was at their peak. Then suddenly, I got married. It was an unplanned one. Then my boyfriend, hooked me into it using a trick which proved effective enough for me to have failed in such task and thus I got him for my husband and he had me for his wife. A thing which proved to be too disastrous a marriage i ended up being so very sorry for it and i am getting sorrier as the days passed. I tried my best to do whatever I can so it will not become one of those failed marriages. After some years though, the womanizing guy left me to take full care of the three kids while, he was away having fun in life. So my advise for you will be to be happy and take advantage of the best years of your life. Make sure to have some savings in order that once the time comes when you decide on getting married, you are prepared for it full blast. Get settled down only when you are ripe in age. A good age would be when you are well beyond 30. My eldest got married when she reached 31, my first child, a daughter. My second child, a son, is still single at 31 and is having the good times of his life. My youngest is a 23 year old son and is much too young to even have a girlfriend yet. Get to know the woman that you will marry. Also, get to know the parents and the family. That way, you will know whether you will be compatible and lead a happy married life together.
• Sweden
12 Oct 11
I totally agree with what you said and I am learning from these things.. I am 22 turning 23 next week.. I always love to listen people's real life experiences as I know I would reap some lessons out of it.. thanks!! :)))
• China
13 Oct 11
Thank you for your advice.I will first continue my career which is so important for me.As for marriage ,I will think over when I am ripe enough.Life is happy ,isn't it?Thank you again.
• Sweden
13 Oct 11
yes, enjoy life! it has much to offer than we can ever expect!!! :)))
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
I was already working at the age of 24 and getting ready to travel outside the country in search of a better opportunity. I have enjoyed it so much and learned a lot. At the time I also have no boyfriend but eventually got one. Try to enjoy life and you never know one day you will meet someone. SOmetimes you never have to find the one for you because it will come straight to where you are =) good luck!
• Sweden
13 Oct 11
Hi, I was working at the age of 20 and now am 22 and get to travel around quite a lot because of the opportunities also offered by my job... Recently, I don't have any boyfriend but I don't think I am ready yet for a serious one...
@rene12 (794)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Have you ever tried courting girls? Coz I think that even the ugliest guy can have a girl with sweet words and sincerity :D But frankly speaking, it would make a lot of effort to show ones interest. so instead of listening to pop music or surf, try finding a girl. She won't come to you unless you find her.
• China
13 Oct 11
It is always nice to meet a compatriot,bro. We are peers ,believe it or not, i am single too. When i was in college,i had several chances to date girls.Yet in case romantic relationship influnces my study, i walked away,which i think very stupid. Qingdao is definitely beautiful city though i have not been there. I went to Hangzhou and Suzhou in my summer holiday two year ago. Before the trip, i was excited to be there.However,when i got there ,the picturesque sence was not as shocking to me as i expected. Maybe i am not so much sensitive to scenary .It is nice to meet you, pal.
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
12 Oct 11
hi sunchen wow 24 years old i can say that i didn't still reach that age but i think that when i am 24 i am with my mom and working at abroad i don't know if as a nurse or what .. it is really difficult to predict the future . But i hope i will have a good future
• China
13 Oct 11
Are you going to be a nurse?oh,I can not stay with my family now because of my job.working abroad?That sounds so good,and I want to do that,too.You are a nice girl.I believe that you will achieve you dream.Hope you a good future,girl.
• Spain
13 Oct 11
My life will suck at 24 maybe i won't survive who knows good luck
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
I just delivered my eldest child and only daughter when I was 24. I am enjoying motherhood by that time then. I am still feeling the same ,as young as 24 so,there is no difference. Have a good day
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
I am 24 years old, I have a stressful but stable job and I already had a 1 year old daughter. Here in my country, most of the students finished there studies and have a bachelors degree at the age of 19 to 22. At the early age of 21, a person here can start his career and have a good life. Also, at that very young age, a person can have a family. I am happy now with my life because of my baby despite of many problems. I am still not contented on what I have with my life and I believe I am still young to stop looking for a greater opportunity ahead of me.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
I remember when i was you age, i was already working in a bank and so i have money of my own. We would always go discoing every Friday night. But weekdays after dismissal my boyfriend would always go to our dorm to visit. I guess, at this age you should already be looking for a girlfriend. You already have a job so you have something to be proud of , to the girl you take interest with.
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
When i was 24 the happiest moment of my life coz i gave birth of my very sweet loving son. The only treasure i have in this earth.
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
When I was 24, I am still very much single and focused on my career. My life is quite wonderful and I can say that I am enjoying every single day of it. It was also the time that I met my future husband and surprisingly, I bore my first child at this age. Even though things have gone by so fast, I continued living my life to the best I can when I was still pregnant and working at the same time. It's alright if you still have not found a partner at this age. You are still quite young and this is the best time to enjoy your career and the fruits you are making. Find time to meet new people and exploring different skills. Middle age also allows you to save money for your future security. God bless!