I understand I need goals to lead my life.

India
October 13, 2011 11:39am CST
Even if we will not be able to visualise the entire journey, if we are not able to see the immediate road ahead, we will not be able to drive properly. without goals optimum utilization of resources won't be possible. There will be no motivation if you have nothing to aim for. You need goals to lead your life and the goals have to be S.M.A.R.T. Specific: you can't tell the cub driver-go north! North Where? You've got to be specific. I want to study better, i want to become richer, i want to become healthier aren't specific goals. It isn't about north, it is about north-where? Unless you are specific, your mind will remain incapable of chalking out a plan of action. Most goals remain in the pipeline because we don't make them specific. The mind springs into action the moment the goal is made meaningful by making it specific. Measurable: Most mortals need to see progress to remain motivated in pursuit of a goal. we need ways by which we can know that we are inching closer to the finishing line. whe n a goal is fragmented into measurable components, then the pursuit of the goal is no longer one final big success, but a series of successes that culminate into the final result. The measurable, broken fragments of a goal actually act as a cheering squad that motivated us to move on. What cannot be measured cannot be monitored, and what cannot be monitored cannot be controlled, and what cannot be controlled does not motivate. we need measurable milestones. Achievable: There are no ambitious goals, only ambitious time frames. most often, we set out to achieve a goal without giving ourselves the adequate time frame to achieve it. It is not that the goal isn't achievable; but in most situations, the goal isn't achievable in the time frame within which you want to achieve it. Once we realise that we are not going to make it in the time frame we have given ourselves, then frustration sets in. Motivation is lost. You eventually give up on the goal. Goals can be born from the heart (in fact, preferably born from the heart), but time frames must be reasoned out by the mind.. That's why goals can be out of sight, but not out of mind. Time Bound: Human beings are deadline driven animals. In fact, when it comes to goals, it is deadlines that define the finishing Line. Had we applied our mind properly on making the goal 'achievable' and 'realistic', we would have arrived at a time frame by which the goal can be achieved, which is essence will make the goal S.M.A.R.T and complete. To plan what you want to be 10 years from now is a joke. To not know what you want to be a year from now is a tragedy. Be smart. Challenge Yourself.
4 responses
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
14 Oct 11
Do you find this happens to you sometimes with goals? The example of a goal I am thinking of would be say a writing project or a web page building goal for instance. Starting with Time Bound: I find that I underestimate. What I think will take 20 minutes evolves to be 20 days. Suddenly, all the other parts of the goal are in question. What to do? Revise is sometimes possible but so is starting a completely new goal. Measurable: False starts can be frustrating. I like to look back at all the failures and consider them stepping stones but since there are so many of them I sense insecurely a bad trend is in effect and I really need to find another way. I can see the benefit of small goals but always need to know that I am on track overall. Specific: The more specific we are the better. Reading what is above, often I am faced with what doesn't work when I working on a project. This causing me to reexamine my specific goals all the time. Achievable: Where there is a will there is a way and challenging is certainly the word in reflection of goals I've made for myself. I know what I am capable of doing and when I have a heart to do something plunge bravely ahead. The outside world however is another story and it is in that application where everything gets turned upside down. I am not always smart so I suppose I should be very determined.
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
14 Oct 11
Question: In starting I tend to start projects and immediately go back to look at my goals and see they need adjustment. I can spend a lot of time just planning. My goal making becomes the primary exercise and not the actual project. Do you have any suggestions, solution or ideas on that problem? Have you done this? I think goals for me are like visions or general ideas that I use my imagination to render up. However, when I get down to work to actually plan things out, I write down things that are more like objectives than the overall target/purpose. Well thought out plans in detail then I might refer to as s-m-a-r-t objectives.
@ralphs (209)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
If you always think your goal in your life it motivates you more to reach it. Just focus and have faith in GOD you will reach your goal.
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 11
Every goals require actions. No doubt you need to be specific and have a meassurable goals, but all begin with the very first step you take. Do not freak out on the first step. I have a feeling you're trying to jump the queue in order to achieve ur goal. Every success need the first step.
@TenzhoLee (193)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 11
S.M.A.T Goal setting! Why not add an R in between A and T to make it become S.M.A.R.T Goal setting.