but i will never get her..what shall i do??

India
October 14, 2011 6:18am CST
i dont know what to do now..i started to fall in love with my chatting friend...i wanted to open my mind to her..but since she is from a different country iam afraid to tell her,... i am afraid that she will stop chatting with me..and more over this relationship dont work out..i know every thing ..but my passion has become a cancer in my heart and i cant with stand the pain of this uncertainity...i am alone and i want her but she is juz like a rainbow.. beautiful but far of reach..never ever i can see her..never ever i can hold her hands ..never ever i can kiss her... what can i do?? i cant stop thinking about her..,..what shall i do??
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5 responses
@julianmac (396)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 11
Hi kamalvv, You are caught in a tough situation. You want to confess your feelings for her and at the same time you are afraid of losing her friendship if the feeling is not mutual. You should let her know how much you like her and see what her response is. Girls nowadays are more open minded and are capable of making rational decisions. So, even if she rejects you for some reason, I'm sure she will continue to be your chatting buddy. Wish you all the best.
@buddha3 (1026)
• India
15 Oct 11
Rightly said julian. I don't think she would stop being his chat buddy even if she doesn't have the same feeling as kamalvv.
@buddha3 (1026)
• India
14 Oct 11
Hi kamal. I can understand your feelings and your situation very well. I've also been in exactly the same state and in fact I am, even now! I know it's almost impossible for us to get together. Maybe we can meet at some stage of life but it's more than impossible to spend our lives together. But as the saying goes, Love is blind! When I shared it with her she said "let us hope for the best and think only good things. I strongly believe that our dreams will come true". I didn't know what to say!! She has assured me that she would be strong if it doesn't happen. We have left it to our destiny and just carrying on. Some people on mylot may tell you that it doesn't make sense and that you should not be so emotional. But I know what it feels like. Love just happens. It has no boundaries. There is no perfect solution for your problem kamal. You have to decide what is good for you. Just continue chatting with her as usual and leave the rest to destiny.
• India
14 Oct 11
your comment means a lot to me..thank you.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
That's the price of online love. You need to accept reality that she's far. Or else, you have to come to her and have your love come in reality. This is the problem with online love. They keep saying they love each other but cannot do anything to make that love comes in real. have a good day
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
16 Oct 11
Oh I think you should take the chance and tell her how you feel. Start out slowly and then you can become more serious. See how she reacts to your comments. Good luck...
@TenzhoLee (193)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 11
If you really love her, then you are the only one who can bring your love together. She lives in a different country, have you ever think of migrating. But a lot of consequences you have to pay. You might need to leave your family behind, your friends, job,education, etc. Will you choose love over these? That is up to you to decide. If you migrate to her country, it does not mean that she will 100% accept her. So think wisely.