should i live again with my sister?

Maybe your sister don't want to have boy friend early and don't bring it to her house. So you did break up ,so maybe try to go back it to your sister house and see, and that do not have boy friend or break it already......

It's not matter of whether you stay with your sister or not. But it's the matter of presence you create to your sister. You start talking with your sister and try to understand her first and make her to understand yourself. Make sure that your there for her ever and ever. Now if you and your sister both are feeling like staying together join with her.

your decision to return and live with your sister should not only be hinged on her need to have househelp or have someone to do housechores. there must be something more. your return to that house can also the means to patch up and make up for the lost times between you and your sister. it can also be your way of connecting with your sister again. i wish you the best.

If you are confident or almost sure you can work things out then you should but living together can mess your relationship with her and now that you are adults things might get uglier. If you think you can work things out, that your bond is stronger than everything you should try, I see you want to help your sis.

hi:) I think it's better if you talk first to your sister, if you two could iron things out and compromise, so why not live with her again. as they say blood is thicker than water, so even if your sister and you have misunderstandings, in the end you and her will always be sisters and in tough time, she is the one that u can really count on. goodluck:)

things went hard and hard for reasons. Now that you have found reasons and have broken up with your boyfriend, it is a time to make another decision. In fact, whatever your sister has done to you or whatever you have done to her, after all you are sisters and sisters forever. so you had better cherish the love between you and your sister. come back and try your best to understand your sister and of course try to make her understood. the best way of keeping a good relationship is to talk more and communicate with each other frequently. never hide something between each other.

Since you are enjoying your stay at the boarding house then let it be that way at least for now. If you are going back to stay with your sister there is no guarantee that you won't have any disagreements anymore. What if you fight again? Then you might avoid her again and live somewhere else. Sometimes distance help to resolve conflicts and avoid arguments.

"Distance makes the heart grow fonder" can really be true sometimes. And I am glad you have experienced living away from your sister. I am like that with my brother although we don't really have major fights. I think your worry is on going back and reigniting past fights but I believe that you have grown more mature since that time and could probably handle your sister better . You need to be more patient with her and if she starts saying hurting words again, it would be best to reciprocate it with kind and gentle ones. Some people are always angry but after that they feel guilty. I am sure your sister loves you and feels guilty whenever she had to nag you. So don't let her loose-cannon yapping get into your nerves and learn to let it pass through the other ear making sure you won't do the same mistake again. If you can't stand her, you might reconsider going away for a time.

I suggest you should just go back and live with your sister. It would be nice to patch things up where you left off. Even if you had a big deal of disagreements, she's still your sister, she's family. In time, you'll learn to adjust and understand each other even more.

I sure know what you are talking about. I used to be like that with my brother. But when I went to high school, I stayed in a dormitory, I only go home during weekends, and it was only then that I became good friends with my brother. I guess having a space between us is really good for our relationship. Last year, I went home for a long vacation (for about 2 months). Then in the end, I find myself getting irritated with my brother again, so I really believe that we can never stay in one house for a long time. So, you have to access yourself. If the reason why you always get into fight is because of clashing personalities, then I suggest you stay away. If she needs help, you can extend help by going home on weekends. But, if you only fight back then, because of your ex boyfriend, then by all means, go back. Hope this helps.

It's nice having your family around,you have someone to talk to and share your everyday lives with..But,with what happened to you and your sister before, I think its best to stay where you are right now...You can help her with the chores by visiting her every once in a while though. If you will choose to stay with your sister again,you can't tell that what you and your sister been through will not happen again..

Do what you think is best. Apparently these are your options: 1) Call or talk to your sister and tell her that you guys ARE in fact, sisters... and you want to be there for her. Offer to help with chores, money issues, and anything else she might need, be happy with your family and be grateful... or... 2) Ignore it all together, leave her to do it all on her own and miss out the meaning of family. Your call. I mean, I know what I'm saying is blunt and almost insulting, but rest assured, I don't mean for it to. I'm just saying... regret not being helpful to your own family over stupid petty arguments... or enjoy having your sister in your life for as long as you can...