Man with Anger Issue

Malaysia
October 19, 2011 7:48pm CST
Most of what you hear and domestic violence that took place every parts of the world, it all started from anger. Is anger a disorder? Do we all been trained in school and family to control our emotions? Unlikely we do. why we need to get angry/ pissed off/ cross/ enraged/ fierce? Tell me about your thoughts! Thank you! xo
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6 responses
• United States
20 Oct 11
No , not all of us are trained to control our anger . I believe getting angry is a good sign. That way you voice the hurt that happens when people cross a boundary.If we didn't get angry , let it out, it would remain in and that is worse. But this does not mean it is ok to hit or bully.
• United States
21 Oct 11
Agreed! The healthiest thing is to express your anger Without hurting anyone.
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
It's a good sign when it's not hurting others. :)
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• United States
27 Oct 11
Anger is an emotion, just like love. You never see anyone saying that someone is too much in love, or that he has to get his love under control. They do not have love management counselors. Loving too much can be as dangerous as too much anger. If a person is not in balance, bad things can happen. It's a pretty simple concept. I think that if a person is in an environment that sparks too much of an unwanted emotion, then they should remove themselves from that environment. It's not always easy to do, but some effort has to be made, otherwise there is the chance that someone will get hurt; emotionally, physically, financially or otherwise.
• Malaysia
28 Oct 11
Anger is....negative Love is...positive vice versa
• United States
20 Oct 11
Yes anger can be fierce for some people and yes some people can learn to control it but it has to be that they want to. Having to learn to control anger only because others say they need to will not work, I don't think. I am not an angry person by nature but can get steamed at times. I do have self control so I know when I need to draw the line.
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
hi hwg. nice to know something about you. some ppl make their stand by getting with another person. we might got what we want, but we also got others hurt and bad impression on others on ourself too. best, to be sweet and lovable being. angry ppl just shun others away. xo cheersss
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Being anger is just very natural. Not only men, but also women. Not only human, but also animal. Now, as the human, the most important point here is how to control our anger and emotion. Do we all been trained in school and family to control our emotions? Yes, we should do. And generally, yes, we can. Family interaction can be really a great help for us to learn to control our emotions. Especially when a person is still a kid, the family members should guide him to control his emotion better. And of course, we need that anger feeling. Imagine if you see a person being treated bad and you aren't mad at all, the world may getting worse.. Show your anger in the right time and right place, and learn how to control it.
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
managing emotions should start from early school days. children should be tought by their teachers and parents to control their emotions. parents who don't have proper ways of teaching their children should start to get it from the right source of family teaching institute. thanks fr responding this. xo
• India
21 Oct 11
people get enraged and angyr when thay fail to control the things arround them.We humans have become soacustomed towards controlling things arround us that we cant accept that some thing is out of our control and in hte process we forget one thing that we are trying to control our loved ones and if they revolt we are surrounded by frustration about not able to control things .The diffrences of opinions arise because of this fact .The idea is to let go things and accept evry person arround you the way they are .Just practise this simple saying and wouls see all of your doubts and frustraiton clearing up fast and you would become a more sensible person
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
Love resolves anger. True. To exhibit the right way of controlling, we start up on OURSELF first. Not on others. Trying to control others before us, means we are looking for short cuts in solving the issue. This is not right. Thank you for your feedback. xo
@cintara (137)
20 Oct 11
Anger is the emotion of the worst, which need to be addressed. From time to time, we all have these strong feelings. Some common causes of anger include frustration, hurt, annoyance, disappointment, harassment, and threats. This helps us to realize, that anger can be a friend, or it could be an enemy, depending on how we express it. Knowing how to recognize and express anger appropriately, can help us to overcome anger.
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
When negative things arises, we tempt to having difficulty accepting it. Therefore, we opt to feel angry/ upset about it. We need to realise that there is no need to get angry, instead, we need to be tought to react positively in order to achieve something out of failure.