are men liars too??

Well, I wouldn't really call them liars per se but I myself find it weird when men do some women vanity stuff such as mani & pedi, facials, skin whitening, and do you know that they now have a so-called "masculine wash"? They say that men who do that are called "metrosexual". But honestly and not that I'm judging but I think there's really no such thing as being metrosexual, perhaps just being gay? I don't know. But that's my own opinion and again, not really judging but just a general wondering. A guy friend of mine also finds it weird and wonders why some men do those stuff. He said that a real man doesn't really care that much about his looks. But honestly I do like doing some girly vanity stuff myself but not to the point of botox, face lifts, etc, just the simple make-up and good grooming.

I must hang around in the wrong circles, cuz I don't even know ANY man that's had any of that stuff done. I'm 100% what-you-see-is-what-you-get...........and unlike my purple bald buddy up there.....I haven't even had a haircut in well over 10 years. ........sorry ladies.........I'm taken...........deal with it

Well I have never known any man who did this. I have never done any of it either. I believe in being natural and if the people who look at me cannot handle it that is their problem not mine. I do not believe in the beauty myth and I have no interest in pretending I am younger than I am. In fact the men I have spoken to over the years tell me they do not like this sort of stuff on anyone. The only people who ever mention it to me are women. My female boss wanted me to die my grey hair and wear make up and high heels. Yuk. I did experiment with dying my hair for a few years until it went white on top and now I have white and grey hair. I hate make up and I think high heels are dangerous nasty things to be avoided at all costs.

I'm with you (even though I am a girl) I do not want any of those done to me! I won't even do a manicure or pedicure.. I don't like anyone touching my feet! I dye my own hair because it's cheaper.. but guys...you gotta think most of these are typically considered feminine. But hair implants (unecessary) I could see.

I'm a girl and I would probably never do any of those listed above! I don't like the idea of someone else touching my feet and fixing up my nails. I prefer just to do it myself, I'm not much of a girly girl so manicures and all that are out of my list! Now there are men who do these kind of things? They're called metrosexuals, men who like to fix themselves up and look good. I've heard of guys and boyfriends who take longer to get ready than their girlfriends! But personally, guys who do this are very unattractive for me, it's like having another woman by your side. Back then, men were always stereotyped to be always getting down and dirty. They would come home all covered in oil and dirt and men back then would never consider a pedicure! Times have changed so much!

i landed on a similar discussion hosted by PPE that was targeted towards women.and now i see this one being targeted towards men.what is this people?some kind of war?*woot* anyways am loving it. well taking roper care of your self and keeping your looks perfect is not a lie.its just about the consciousness. as for me i try to be as natural as i can,because that way you keep on your natural look for long.

I see no problem with men having various treatments and procedures to improve their appearance. If they have the disposable income to do so, why not? I used to work in a corporate setting and one of our senior male managers used to get his nails done. He had such nice hands, I swear LOL He was always immaculately dressed.. beautiful suits and shoes.. his hair was nice and his nails were always so clean and healthy. I thought he looked like a very "put together" man. When we had the chance to meet his wife, she too was very elegant. Clearly, they were making a generous income and were able to treat themselves well. The way I see it, I color my hair and have for a few years... if I can cover up the grey around my temples, I don't see why a man can't as well One man I know colors his beard. I can understand why he does that because I'm sure having grey in the beard can really age a man's appearance. Some people look fabulous with grey or salt and pepper hair... others don't. All about personal preference and what makes someone feel good on the inside as well as the outside