Men or women had more?
By Rosa26
@Rosa26 (2618)
United States
6 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
21 Oct 11
Hi Rosa 
I am open for my wife and she knows about all in my life - offline and also online. I believe it is this honesty that keeps the faith between us alive and the relation so very loving. I see no reason to hide anything when it comes to husband and wife. I know there are some secrets which should remain so but I have none between none.
I am open for my wife and she knows about all in my life - offline and also online. I believe it is this honesty that keeps the faith between us alive and the relation so very loving. I see no reason to hide anything when it comes to husband and wife. I know there are some secrets which should remain so but I have none between none.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
21 Oct 11
lol that was so good... wonder what would have happened if it was you and your hubby particpating in that joke together 
I once tried saying Aww that girl in red is really looking awesome... and ont ask what my wife's reply was 
I once tried saying Aww that girl in red is really looking awesome... and ont ask what my wife's reply was @Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
21 Oct 11
My husband told me like joke, that one day him and hisa cousin said let's count with how many girls have we being, after a lot of attempts to calculate, they gave up because their memory wasn't as good,, was so funny.
But I congratulate you Thesids and Madalinuta the true is the best.
, was so funny.
But I congratulate you Thesids and Madalinuta the true is the best.
@madalinuta (91)
• Romania
21 Oct 11
I am opened with my boyfriend also. I know he had a lot of girlfriends when he was a teenager, he used to cheat on them but know he grew up, he'll turn 24 next month and he is different now. I really don't care how many girls he had until now, it matters how is he now. At the beginning he did not want to tell me because he thought I will judge him or I will be jealous or something like that.
@madalinuta (91)
• Romania
21 Oct 11
I don't think we should lie. I did not have so much men in my life and I am really happy about this. But on the other hand, maybe there are women ashamed of the number and they want to hide it so the lie about it. But what if we lie about this number and we forget what we have said? They will catch us anyway in this point.
@madalinuta (91)
• Romania
21 Oct 11
Exactly :)) It is more complicated to remember all those lies than telling the truth. If you are saying the truth most of the time it is not that hard, but if you are telling lies all the time it's easier to get caught.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
29 Oct 11
I would be happy that she had told me openly.Trust is the main thing that keeps the bond in a relationship to to be firm.I will be a little jealous as to me not being the first guy for her.But that doesn't count much nowadays.Being truthful is all that matters.Besides the past doesn't matter.Only the present matters.I would like to hear about the past stories not to judge her or being jealous but to know the things where I would do my best to give her more happiness than the happiniess she got from her previous boyfriends.
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
1 Nov 11
You are right what is important is the present, and the happiness you can give her, and she can give you, how many or who had more is not important now.
The past doesn't exist, the future is uncertain, and the present is a gisft.So you are her gift and she is your gift.
I wish the best
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@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
7 Nov 11
I believe partners should be honest with one another. Its OK to ask about these delicate things because if they are in love with one another, these things wont matter. As for me, I think its not applicable, I only had one boyfriend who is now my husband :)
@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
6 Nov 11
Im a firm beleiver of what you don't know wont hurt. Why would your partner want to know how many people you lay with. Thats your business. He trying to open a can of worms.
